Hey! I NEED ADVICE😄
So basically I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just about a year now in January and was mentioning to him about new year and what our plans would be.. This would probably make much more sense if I told you what he done for a living. So basically he plays professional football and he’s from Canada. He only gets to see his family 2-3 times a year sometimes for 2 months straight, and now and again he gets international break. Sometimes this can last for about a week with some training days in between. So the week leading up to new year he has international break which falls through new year. This is our first ever new year as a couple and it is special to me and I feel like a couple we should spend it together, BUT his answer to me was he would rather spend it with family... I really did not know how to react!!!! I felt extremely upset and hurt because he knows that I’ll be spending new year myself because close friends are spending it with their loved ones. So I really don’t know if I’m over reacting or should just back off about the full thing ? If you have any advice at all, I would really appreciate it! Thanks, A😊