Friend situation Watch

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So I need your guys opinion/view on this situation. Within my friend group we joke around, call each other names and such but I feel like they are always trying to embarrass me like in class for example, I would feel constantly belittled and never taken seriously, they make me feel like a child who can’t make decisions for them selves
they say it’s advice but in reality it feels harsh and more of an attack and the whole class would just stare and it makes me feel like crap.
I don’t know if it’s because I care about what others think too much or I’m too sensitive maybe I’m just overreacting & and overthinking... please give me your guys perspective much needed
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Sofasa
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It depends, if it’s just friendly banter then you should try to do the same with them. They probably joke around with you more because they can see it bothers you which makes it more funny. I’m not saying it’s right that they act like that but I would suggest either try acting less bothered than you are... if you can’t get a reaction from someone then it makes it boring and they’ll move on.alternative is you could try speaking to them and saying it bothers you or failing this finding new friends?
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(Original post by Sofasa)
It depends, if it’s just friendly banter then you should try to do the same with them. They probably joke around with you more because they can see it bothers you which makes it more funny. I’m not saying it’s right that they act like that but I would suggest either try acting less bothered than you are... if you can’t get a reaction from someone then it makes it boring and they’ll move on.alternative is you could try speaking to them and saying it bothers you or failing this finding new friends?
Thank you!
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