16 and dating a 25 year old man!!!!

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Reply 60

username4168344

Original post by HumbleBee_x

Tell me about it :K:

Original post by londonmyst

So long as its consensual and there is nothing illegal going on, that's fine.
I dated a guy in his 50s when I was 16.

Tell me he died now and you got all his money.

Reply 61

Anonymous #1

Original post by zedius

idk wtf im saying,

thought so, mate. go take a nap innit

Reply 62

Anonymous #3

Let's be honest here, if it was a 25 year old woman and a 16 year old guy, or if the older person wasn't a PoC, nobody here would be crying about paedophilia and 'motivations'.

As long as there are no red flags (on both sides of the relationship), it shouldn't be a problem.

Reply 63

bones-mccoy

You have to wonder what a 25 year old, a fully functioning adult, would potentially see in a 16 year old child. You only have to grow a few years past 16 to realise how immature and childish you were back then, once you get to the age of 19/20 the idea of dating a 16 year old is weird for most.

(edited 4 years ago)

Reply 64

Anonymous #1

Original post by thelocalkid

Tell me he died now and you got all his money.

wtaf

some wild **** on TSR and it isn't even Friday evening yet

Reply 65

londonmyst

Original post by thelocalkid

Tell me he died now and you got all his money.

Nope.

I dumped him.

Reply 66

username4168344

Original post by londonmyst

Nope.

I dumped him.

Lol, poor old man.

Reply 67

username4168344

Original post by Anonymous

wtaf

some wild **** on TSR and it isn't even Friday evening yet

Looks like someone is actually thinking about dating 16 years old when they're 25 and over.

Reply 68

taylirr

Original post by kerry0013

Give your opinion

It really depends on the situation but that 16 yr old is under aged

Reply 69

davesantana

Original post by Anonymous

thought so, mate. go take a nap innit

Never had a nap since 10. Bigmantings

Reply 70

sj10

When you're 16, you don't see a problem with it because technically you're at the age of consent. However, as you get older, you realise that there's a problem. Why is a man in his mid-20s not dating someone his own age? As you get older, you realise that it's really weird that a man is interested in someone that is still legally a child.

I'm not saying it's always a red flag, but in a majority of cases it is very weird and turns out bad once you get older, have more experience and are more mature.

(edited 4 years ago)

Reply 71

Anonymous #3

I didn't want to reply to this thread again but I completely agree. Some of these faux-outrage comments are so naive that it's making me lose my faith in humanity.

Also, how did you get more thumbs than me for posting the same thought... :biggrin:

Reply 72

Anonymous #4

you all jumped on this like a b*tch on heat but op is nowhere to be found and probs made up this little fantasy story but you guys can't get enough of dodgy age gap stories can you.

Reply 73

sj10

Maybe some of us have had friends in this very position

Reply 74

username4949304

for them to be dating he mustve been talking to her for a while before... a 25yo has no business talking to a Key Stage 4 kid

Reply 75

Anonymous #1

Original post by zedius

Never had a nap since 10. Bigmantings

go take one coz i said so, fam. YoLo

Reply 76

davesantana

Original post by Anonymous

you all jumped on this like a b*tch on heat but op is nowhere to be found and probs made up this little fantasy story but you guys can't get enough of dodgy age gap stories can you.