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About a year ago I was talking to this guy and we were both good friends and kinda liked each other, I then realised I didn’t really fancy him and stopped talking to him as much. Since then we’ve not really had a proper conversation but he still likes my photos on insta and messages me happy birthday so I don’t think he’s mad at me. I miss talking to his and I want to message him and ask how he is, how should I go about it? I was going to say I miss him but not sure if that’s too much, should I apologise for not talking as much?
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No problem in asking how he is, but you don’t fancy him, so don’t say you miss him. He may get the wrong idea
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Maybe say you miss talking to them and see how they are. There is no harm in messaging
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MrMusician95
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No problem in messaging but make it completely obvious that it's just a platonic friendship you want. By that I mean, use words like bro, dude, buddy or something. But hopefully he's also moved on.
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(Original post by MrMusician95)
No problem in messaging but make it completely obvious that it's just a platonic friendship you want. By that I mean, use words like bro, dude, buddy or something. But hopefully he's also moved on.
I hope that he's moved on too, and can see you as a friend. But don't be upset if he doesn't see you as a friend and may wish to end the friendship.
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I hope that he's moved on too, and can see you as a friend. But don't be upset if he doesn't see you as a friend and may wish to end the friendship.
Not sure why you're replying to me haha but I completely agree. OP needs to understand that this guy may want to end the friendship.
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Not sure why you're replying to me haha but I completely agree. OP needs to understand that this guy may want to end the friendship.
I accidentally posted that as anonymous. It's me haha.
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