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Girls, do you get insecure/uneasy when guys talk about hot girls in your presence?

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When guys talk about other hot girls, I feel...

This thought just struck me today...my mates and I were chatting about hot girls in front of our girly friends and some were obviously looking uneasy about the whole thing... I was just wondering why...is it because you girls get insecure easily when guys are talking about hot girls in your presence? Do you feel like you are being compared to the hot girls or that they are making judgements about you?
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Reply 1

PoisonDonna

Nope not at all. I always talk about hot girls with my guy friends :p:

If they judge me at the same time, that's their issue not mine tbh.

Reply 2

thanette

I have a guy mate who does this pointedly, and then observes my reaction-that makes me uncomfortable. Why does he do this??

Reply 3

Arteta

I guess it depends on what you're saying about the hot girls, if you're talking in details then the girls in presence probably feel like pedigrees being measured up.

Reply 4

hnm

thanette

I have a guy mate who does this pointedly, and then observes my reaction-that makes me uncomfortable. Why does he do this??

Because some guys are idiots?

Reply 5

$am0th

most girls are way to insecure, its annoying to say the least :frown:

Reply 6

Sprout_hair

Ha.. naaahh... im not considered hot AT ALL soo naah.. no effects.. :smile:

Reply 7

Yasmin2K8

No and I usually point out the hot girls before they do. I can understand why girls can get insecure and maybe if it was a guy I liked I might but generally Im happy with the way I look and more than confident.

Reply 8

onthetsr

i only hate it when they start talking about stuff they've done with girls... and the way some of them talk about it disgusts me. Its worse when they bring up stuff they have done with people who i know... i never look at them the same way again!

Reply 9

username136318

In a way I do because I think they aren't happy with hanging around with me and the girls and are looking for something better? But at the same time I'm fine with it and discuss the hot girls with them because we are all mates and I talk about fit guys in front of them and they don't seem to mind.

Reply 10

Omo89

I have a lot of guy friends and this happens A LOT but it doesn't affect me, I guess because I'm used to it and also quite secure with myself so I don't feel like I'm being compared.

Reply 11

MuseValheru

PoisonDonna

Nope not at all. I always talk about hot girls with my guy friends :p:

If they judge me at the same time, that's their issue not mine tbh.

Shouldnt be a problem for you as you are the stigs daughter!

Reply 12

~*~rAiNbOw~*~

only if I fancy the guy...otherwise nope.

Reply 13

Skingods

yeah sometimes you do depending on who it happens to be.

Reply 14

dealbreaker

Yasmin2K8

You're lucky though because you would be one of the hot girls they would probably be talking about. :smile:

Reply 15

francescarella

can we have another poll option for "i only feel uncomfortable if i really fancy the guy and get pangs of jealousy/rage/envy, otherwise i'm fine with it"?

Reply 16

kayzy

depends entirely on who the guys are :^_^:

with good friends it doesn't bother me at all, but if i slightly fancy a guy or don't know them really well then i do get a tad insecure and it makes me feel a bit crappy to be honest: like me and my friends are good enough or i might as well be a big hairy man :s-smilie:

Reply 17

emilina

if its my bf talking about hot girls then yea i get uneasy, but if its just guy friends i tend to join in :p:

Reply 18

XskittyX

I know im extremely insecure if its my boyfriend talking about it obviously because i want to know that he only wants me, but if its anyone else then im not at all bothered. I'd be more concerned when my girl friends are discussing weight and body stuff really. :redface: