Mate, no idea What ho you found, but if you are with someone and she tells you stuff like these, the first thing you should do is pack your stuff and leave her instanly. About the penis size, you shouldnt be worried like at all about it. I have 4 inches as well but that does not give me any disadvantages with women at all. They all seem to like it, in fact no girl ive been with was disspleased by my size, they all were super into sleeping with me with pleasure. The thing is world is changing around us, girls are gettin worst every year. And yes i do understand your strugles Just dont think of stupid shet like these. Work with whatever you got thats how god made you if you believe in that thing.