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Am I in the wrong or is he?

Me:
I deleted the app, I would have told
you but you seem to occupied.

Him:
occupied with what?

Me:
I don’t know, you didn’t exactly reply
for a whole day so yeah

Him:
I kept tryin but you wasn’t even
interested

vague replies all the time
you barely asked me a question

Me:
So me not wanting to come at night
means I’m not interested

You hardly reply, it’s hard to ask
questions when you don’t reply

Him:
that was the last thing we said

lol I always replied to you

Me:
Yeah and you saw it and didn’t reply

Him:
what could I say?
you said you couldn’t come out
and that I knew that

Me:
Right you seem to have me figured
out

Him:
haha
i love it

but hey, you’re getting the boyfriend
expenence

only the arguing

mad jarring, instead of putting this
energy into actually trying

you’d rather argue

Me:
I rather argue? You assume you have
me figured out so me defending my
self is arguing then so be it.

If this is what having a boyfriend is
then I’m glad I’m single.

If it’s mad jarring to have a calm
conversation then don’t reply.

Him:
exactly what i’m talking about

you could of easily continued the
convo but did you?

if you don’t try, we don’t go
anywhere

Me:
Because after being ignored, I should
text the next day to a guy who’s
online but didn’t want to reply?

Him:
couldn’t you tell me when you could
see me

should’ve texted me straight away
but as usual
you just go mute

Me:
You could’ve texted me asking to see
me another day

Him:
haha
leave me alone

Me:
Okay

Him:
cba with arguing if that’s all you’re
looking for

all you girls ever wanna do, boring
All you? Really lol

Me:
You don’t know me.

Him:
I know what energy i get

i get none from you, I don’t know
what you want or what you expect

I can only do so much before you get
long

I expect you to try thats all i’m saying

Me:
Yeah I know what energy I get around
you, but you don’t see me put you in
the same category as the other boys

Try? All I did was try

Did I not text you after deleting my
account, and tried one last time?

Him:
that was trying?

Me:
Yes

Him:
by assuming **** about me

Me:
It was that or never text

Him:
|oooo|
that’s beautiful

Me:
ldidn’t assume anything

Him:
reread what you said then

Me:
I texted, you saw and didn’t reply
right?

We’re you not online?
And still didn’t reply

Him:
the **** you on about?

Me:
When I said I couldn’t come out

Him:
yeah that was the last thing on
The app

so where we going with this?

Me:
Exactly it was the last thing, because
you didn’t reply back because you
expect me to say something

Him:
yes I do

like another day

a time

or something

not just, yh i cant come out

Me:

Your not understanding me

And I don’t think you will

Him:
yeah I agree on that

Me:
This is so irritating, can we just go
our separate ways

Me:
You unfollowed me?

Him:
is that even a question?

Me:
Okay
Why did you unfollowed me?

Him:

what are you tryna accomplish here?

YOU said let’s part ways
you confused?

Me:
Yeah but I didn’t know that meant
let’s unfollow each out her

Each other*

Him:
what did you think it meant?

Me:
I don’t know not that

Him:
you’re overreacting again

you should really try and be idk
positive. like its as if youre turned on
when you argue

Me:
Your telling me I’m negative yet you
don’t notice your own controlling
behaviour right

Thanks for the advice truly.

Him:
controlling
when have i tried to control you?
l was doing as you wanted
parting ways
leaving you alone
Doing what I want, we both wanted it
I didn’t
speak for yourself

I asked you to switch the negative
attitude of arguing and try put it into
some positive attitude and start
speaking

thats cos you, just like now, keep
arguing

l have had this **** for years. I
am used to it

and | get it, you don’t see what
you’re doing

Me:
Then don’t reply, sorry I texted you.
Every time I speak you either think I’m being
negative or trying to argue so what’s
the point

I’m not arguing, I texted to
understand why you unfollowed me
then you decided to give me class on
how to be positive

You think*

Him:
if you sat and thought for a second
why I couldve unfollowed you

you’d of known

Me:
Right

Him:
so again, please leave me
alone with this bs

i’m not in the mood

Me:
I don’t see what?

Him:
??

Me:
You said I don’t see what I’m doing?

Him:
haha
all this arguing
coming back for more argues

Me:
I can see we’re arguing, even a blind
person can.

Sorry I texted, bye.

Him:
thank you for wasting my time, again.

if you happen to be blocked, don’t
cry or ask why.

Me:
Wasting your time, you made the
choice to reply.

I won’t, trust me.

So he blocked me then after an hour, or two he unblocks me.

I feel I can’t say anything without him saying I’m trying to argue, I asked why he unfollowed me and he said talking about how I’m negative. I text him first to give my self a last chance, but he started again assuming I wasn’t interested.