In my 2nd year of university and no friends...Watch
Last year I really struggled to find a friendship group, everyone else seemed to connect and form cliques really quickly and easily.
My housemates don’t really want to include me into their group, and so now I just treat them as housemates.
I’m part of a sport but it’s more individual based.
This is going to sound dumb, but I don’t know what to do. It seems like everyone isn’t looking to make anymore friends because everyone’s already got their groups figured out since last year.
And uni has been pretty hard on my mental health, feeling isolated doesn’t help.
I am part of a sport (but it’s more individual based and has less socials), I have a part time job lined up. I plan on going abroad with my course society. But like I said it just seems like people are really unwilling to make extra friends at this point
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I’d suggest joining society’s if you can find one that suits you (mine are all mostly sports related, which I’m not into) so I haven’t but that could potentially be a good way to make friends.
I am so lonely and I can barely even help myself. Everyone says joining societies are a good way so maybe try that.
I've joined societies and didn't gain much from it.
I am so alone and with the flatmates I don't even see them to get that chance to talk to/be friends with. Since I've moved in to my private halls I've only seen them (2 girls) like 4 times. And I moved in at the start of this month.
I'm also in second year and I fear I won't progress and be embarrassed at graduation day. I have no connections with my course mates and it's been over a year :O I'm constantly trying to integrate but I'm often ignored so :/
Plus they don't even voluntarily talk to me about or with anything so it's like why am I even trying but I'm still trying because my course mates will have to acknowledge me at some point bc we will be together for 2 years from now so.
I have zero friends, no social life. To prevent from being and feeling even more lonely I just join my coursemates and hang out with them during my breaks as I tag a long.
It's so clear that I don't have any friends and I'm just so miserable about it and my uni experience. I'm just waiting to graduate and be done with it.