i’ve been with my boyfriend now for 4 months. we’ve had sex multiple times etc and it’s been been fine. but a few weeks ago he told me he has a “raceplay” fetish which i had no idea what it was. he explained what it was and i didn’t know what to think. he’s black and i’m white and he loves it when i called him the n word (with the hard r) when we’re having sex. he gets so tuned on when i call him other racial slurs and he loves degrading me too like saying i’m a “white *n word* whore”. it kind of makes me uncomfortable but he loves it so i don’t know what to do