Feeling pressure from other people my age to be at a certain stage with boys, I’m perfectly comfortable pulling at parties etc but also feel too shy/awkward/embarrassed to go any further, also coz first time, is that normal and how do I get over it ??
Stay away from the people who are pressuring you and surround yourself with people who respect that you do not feel comfortable going further. You are still young you have plenty of time for that stuff
Yeah thanks kind of sucks for girls though because you’re either a prude or slut and boys are lads and players for doing the same stuff!! Sometimes just wish I was more confident so I’m more in control, don’t want to look back and regret not doing anything just because I’m insecure or shy
Thanks, but at the same time it’s sort of just lack of confidence that’s stopping me because in the bigger picture it won’t matter as much?? Everything just seems like such a big deal right now