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Dr Acula
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well this is the problem,
me and cousin are close, we're good friends, but recently he's been actin really weird,

1) a couple of weeks ago we were at a party and we were all joking and messing about and then suddenly he stopped talking to me, he wouldn't say anything, and it was really awkward because he had done it so suddenly and everyone kept asking me what did you say/do?

2) yesterday at the park we were all playing cricket and then when no one was looking he went really cold and said you're really pissing me off, but before and after that he was normal

i dont get it, he just keeps switching, and its starting to annoy me, because we're really good friends,
i don't know whats up?

anyone got a clue?
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Dr Acula
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anyone? seriously confused here :confused:
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Sometimes people do that, it's easier with family to do it because they will always forgive :p:

Ask him?
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maybe he fancies you.

and coz thats weird hes trying to distance himself from you by acting weird.?
or otherwise, maybe you've just been spending to much time together so your annoying each other.. some time apart might be good.
orrr. hes got something ese going on which you should speak to him about
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maybe he fancies you.

and coz thats weird hes trying to distance himself from you by acting weird.?
or otherwise, maybe you've just been spending to much time together so your annoying each other.. some time apart might be good.
orrr. hes got something ese going on which you should speak to him about
yuck he's my first cousin!
and we see each other every two weeks that is not alot
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He loves you?

Sometimes people can just get pissed off for no reason, and often if you're quite close they think it's not such a big deal.

Edit: PoisonDonna, are you happy about Heikki's pole? Bad pun, sorry.
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(Original post by PoisonDonna)
Sometimes people do that, it's easier with family to do it because they will always forgive :p:

Ask him?
arrrr i have but he completely ignores the question and walks away!
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He loves you?

Sometimes people can just get pissed off for no reason, and often if you're quite close they think it's not such a big deal.

Edit: PoisonDonna, are you happy about Heikki's pole? Bad pun, sorry.
seriously he does not have a crush/fancy/love me!!!
and he very very rarely swears so it was a big deal???
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(Original post by Dr Acula)
seriously he does not have a crush/fancy/love me!!!
and he very very rarely swears so it was a big deal???
Well if he wasn't your cousin it does seem like it from the way he's acting.

Possibly you've done something to upset him but haven't realised? Could be one of those 'if you don't know what you've done wrong I'm not going to tell you' sort of things.
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Well if he wasn't your cousin it does seem like it from the way he's acting.

Possibly you've done something to upset him but haven't realised? Could be one of those 'if you don't know what you've done wrong I'm not going to tell you' sort of things.
thats what my sister said but i haven't said or done anything i know of
arrr and i don't want to stop being "friends" with him cause we're the only two in the whole family who are the same age and down to earth
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arrrr i have but he completely ignores the question and walks away!
Well there's something there. Don't ask him in an accusing way, he'll never talk to you then.
Otherwise, he's got stuff going on he doesn't want to tell you, so just leave him a while and he might be fine in a week or two.
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(Original post by Dr Acula)
yuck he's my first cousin!
and we see each other every two weeks that is not alot

well i did say it was weird!
he might be confused about his feelings,
was just an idea.
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cousens can like each other- it happens

but becase hes your first cousen I guess its pretty gross

that might not be it though so dont let people scare you off being close to your cus


hope everything works out and just ask him why straight up and he might give you a reason just say 'why are you being so weird and cold then you're alright the next minute' and he may give you the answer your looking for!!
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