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why the hell does appearance matter??
(thats wht allot of u are implying here, on tsr)
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It doesn't
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It doesn't make a lot of difference.
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Well. Would you want to be in a relationship or be intimate with someone who you didn't find attractive? I wouldn't. So in that sense it does matter.

For friends etc though? Of course appearance doesn't matter.
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(Original post by yurgirln33s)
why the hell does appearance matter??
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because everyone wants to date someone they find attractive.
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i dont care too much cause if the personality is bad then bye
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It depends. What for? long-term relationship? not important. ONSs or young people 'relationships'? supremely important.
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Appearance matters - I think anybody who says otherwise is lying to themselves.

However appearance is only part of the equation and for example I could be attracted to pretty much anybody if their personality was also attractive. There has to be some level of mutual attraction, but I would take a ‘less pretty’ person any day over an Instagram model with no personality and annoying traits
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(Original post by FakeNewsEditor)
It depends. What for? long-term relationship? not important. ONSs or young people 'relationships'? supremely important.
But you need to find someone attractive to consider a long term relationship surely?
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But you need to find someone attractive to consider a long term relationship surely?
True but OP mentioned appearance which is only a small part of attraction so I don't regard it as important. At least not as important as advertised, a lot of people look good enough to me :dontknow:.
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(Original post by yurgirln33s)
why the hell does appearance matter??
(thats wht allot of u are implying here, on tsr)
The answer is simple: appearance is one factor we use in order to decide whether to date someone or not. I bet appearance matters to you as well! Otherwise you would say that you find every type of appearance to be ok.
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(Original post by yurgirln33s)
why the hell does appearance matter??
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It's a case of minimum standards. I don't see why I, nor any other reasonable package as a person, should put up with someone they don't find physically attractive when they can have someone pretty or handsome without too much difficulty.
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(Original post by Dunnig Kruger)
It's a case of minimum standards. I don't see why I, nor any other reasonable package as a person, should put up with someone they don't find physically attractive when they can have someone pretty or handsome without too much difficulty.
Ah... but an ugly person cannot. You forgot to factor that into the equation. Naturally... ugly people have difficulty finding mates so we don't produce yet... more ugly people, sorry!
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Ah... but an ugly person cannot. You forgot to factor that into the equation. Naturally... ugly people have difficulty finding mates so we don't produce yet... more ugly people, sorry!
Less good looking people can be "reasonable packages".

And, as the Jeremy Kyle show illustrated, less good looking people that are relatively poor packages are still able to find partners..
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Ah... but an ugly person cannot. You forgot to factor that into the equation. Naturally... ugly people have difficulty finding mates so we don't produce yet... more ugly people, sorry!
You did not define what an ugly person is because it is a subjective opinion obviously and if a person believes that they are "ugly" then they need to confront the issues they have about their body image!What i may think is ugly :" fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows, skinny legs, size 8 etc etc. you might think is quite attractive
No, "ugly" parents don't automatically produce "ugly" children.lol.
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tbh. for me personally tho if u have a bomb personality then other factors dont really matter, cause a good personality dictates all of the other factors.
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(Original post by ANM775)
because everyone wants to date someone they find attractive.
Simple biology
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I think of it like this:
Good looks get you through the door, personality keeps you in the room.

and I’m sorry but anyone who says looks don’t matter at all is blatantly lying.
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(Original post by yurgirln33s)
tbh. for me personally tho if u have a bomb personality then other factors dont really matter, cause a good personality dictates all of the other factors.
Well you must be very popular then
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You did not define what an ugly person is because it is a subjective opinion obviously and if a person believes that they are "ugly" then they need to confront the issues they have about their body image!What i may think is ugly :" fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows, skinny legs, size 8 etc etc. you might think is quite attractive
No, "ugly" parents don't automatically produce "ugly" children.lol.
Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder but we all have the same stereotypical image of what it should look like. We choose mates who have the traits we admire as we hope to pass such qualities onto our children.
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