we had sex - now he is ignoring me Watch

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hey you guys,

i met this guy on a night out and we kissed and went back to mine and had sex . he annoyed me a bit so i told him to leave. after a while i contacted him and asked him out. i was ridiculously drunk, which wasn't good. he went back to mine again but we didn't have sex this time. in the afternoon he told me he was bored and hungry so he went back and didn't want me to come with him. after that i messaged him various times and he never replied. all i wanted was to get to know him better without being drunk. then once he did replied but he was being quite rude (kind of denying the whole thing we had and making me feel like i was obsessive). now of course i have to think about him a lot. i'm always thinking wheter i've done something wrong or if he just wanted sex. i hate being in doubt. do you guys think i should send him another message or just leave it? has anyone ever been in a similar situation? how do you stop thinking about someone who's not even worth it?

thanks a lot!
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dh00001
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leave it. sounds to me like he was just after sex and assumed it was a one time thing
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meenu89
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i agree with dh
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EvenStevens
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Guys often see sex as a one time thing
Girls often see sex as a ticket into a relationship

The two things don't go together.
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I agree, i know its hard but try to get over him. He sounds like he was only after sex.
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Well If he has been anoying and rude to you, you leave him regardless of what he wants.
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Sounds like a typical one night stand to me. Just a one time thing. Don't send another message you might seem a bit psycho. If he wants you he'll bother to make an effort. No advice on the how to stop thinking about him issue. You'll get over him eventually though!
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OP - hate to be blunt, but you gave 'in' too easily - he got what he wanted and doesn't see or feel the need to contact you.

Learn from it and move on.
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One night stands ftw.
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Sorry OP, seems like you got used.

Leave him, find someone better. Don't give it away too soon next time?
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Meeee :)
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Leave it. Sounds like he only wanted you for sex.
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ignore him, don't make contact

just get on with your life, i know it's hard, but you'll forget about him soon enough
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