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Anonymous #1
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My boyfriend can be quite immature...the other day he was having harmless banter with his friend, talking about his future wife (he is still single) and said something like ‘I’m going to rape your wife’
Obviously this was a joke but is it a bit weird considering my bf is not single?!
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You’re more concerned he was talking about being with someone else cause he’s not single as opposed to him joking about raping someone?
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(Original post by dyingstudent101)
You’re more concerned he was talking about being with someone else cause he’s not single as opposed to him joking about raping someone?
As in he was talking about my friends future wife
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What a weirdo.
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As in he was talking about my friends future wife
Not sure what relevance this has to my post. Your boyfriends gross. Joking about rape is shockingly not okay (note the sarcasm). You’re also very questionable.
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You need to break up with him.
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You need to break up with him.
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It is hon.

There's a difference between inappropriate jokes and weirdly illegal ones. Cut him off ASAP hun.
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It is hon.

There's a difference between inappropriate jokes and weirdly illegal ones. Cut him off ASAP hun.
it's not an illegal joke

it's funny to the people it was said between, like any other kind of dark humour
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That’s a bad joke on rape.
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it's not an illegal joke

it's funny to the people it was said between, like any other kind of dark humour
I love dark humour but I don’t see how this one was funny.
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I love dark humour but I don’t see how this one was funny.
no me neither because neither of us were there, are friends with these people or understand the rest of the conversation

if you quote something racist/sexist/homophobic out of context, it'll probably offend someone but if you make it an animated tv show BAM you've got family guy
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
it's not an illegal joke

it's funny to the people it was said between, like any other kind of dark humour
Here we go with the humor is subjective excuse
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You need to break up with him.
I would personally do that with ease and completely go off someone who thinks it's okay to make jokes so insensitive and immature. Wouldn't see them the same way again.
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
it's not an illegal joke

it's funny to the people it was said between, like any other kind of dark humour
Of course between two dudes a rape joke could be quite funny. Two girlfriends I bet would not make such a joke. Who is statistically more likely to do the raping, and who at the end of it?
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