How can I make meaningful friendships in 2nd year? Watch
I'd say I only have 2 meaningful friends in 2nd year atm. 1 girl from my Hall and course last year and my friend who is in 1st year and I know from back home.
Other than that I am pretty hopeless. But I do want to change things. It just seems so impossible, because it feels like most people hit the jackpot last year and are friends with those they met in halls many are best friends with their freshers week friends.
I am part of a sport but I have no confidence being friends with my sport mates because honest to god I am the biggest failure, weakest guy on the team, the biggest **** up when it comes to this sport and I unfortunately **** knows why will keep ****ing up I don't know. And also I find it harder to be friends with the 3rd years and the first years it seems like most people just talk to each other in the gym on my sport.
I am part of my course society. I wasn't able to go to the events last year as most clashed with my halls formals. I would like to go to the trip abroad which is in Feb but like I have no one to go with? Likewise travel society seems cool but I have no one to go travelling with,and it doesn't look like there is a facebook group chat for it.
Housemates just see me as a housemate tbh.
I am part of a part time job so I guess I could make friends with the other students I just don't know how to do it. It seems like my best option, but yeah.
I just want to change things. Its a shame deep down I like going out even going clubbing but for the most part especially last year I didn't enjoy because I was never able to go with people who I clicked with. And now I am taking a break from clubbing till around Christmas because I want to focus on the gym.
Nice managed to type this up without losing my ****, screaming, and hitting my laptop . It was kind of therapeutic to type this
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