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So basically a guy followed me on Instagram and he is Maltese and lives in Malta. I followed him back (just out of curiosity as I do have Maltese friends and he may be a mutual friend of those which he wasn’t lol). After a few days nothing happened as I completely forgot I even followed him and then he messages me saying he finds me attractive etc etc. Then we got talking for a few days and yes he is a really nice guy. He does mma at the moment but says he doesn’t see a future in Malta and has always wanted to move away as he would get no where living there with the career he has. Which again I understood how he was feeling but then he started to say he would like to move to my home town with me and settle down. Also, that he would start going to a gym near me to train everyday. I almost feel like this was too soon to say this especially when we hardly know eachother very well. Baring in mind we haven’t even spoke over the phone yet !!! I am so unsure as to weather he is just using me to come over here to start a living. Can anyone give any advice on how to go about this??
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Complete red flag. Talking about moving with you already? Abort!
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(Original post by MidgetFever)
Complete red flag. Talking about moving with you already? Abort!
The thing is he is a really nice person and we do get on well but I just don’t know !
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The thing is he is a really nice person and we do get on well but I just don’t know !
I mean sure, but anyone can be nice.
It's just extremely dodgy that he's considering moving to be with you after only a few days of talking.
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