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My boyfriends parents are strict and have always wanted to make sure he marries within his caste. His ex was a different caste...they were together a couple of years but he never told his parents about her. They would go out drinking a lot together, but my bf told his mum he’s only been out like 5 times (partying).

I’m the same caste as my bf and he told his parents about me straight away..they are happy and we get on really well. I rarely drink and my bf loves this about me. He always talks about the importance of keeping his parents happy, as well as me.

If he’s so keen on making sure his parents are happy, why did he mess around slightly and hide things from them before I came along?!
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You’re the real deal
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Because he did. Caste in this day and age ffs
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He likes the fact that you don’t really drink, but he can drink all he wants? He seems like an ass to be honest and the caste system is incredibly outdated and creepy.
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Hormones. Being young. Just wanting to have a good time and experience new things. Doubt it has any deep meaning.
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Are you bumping until you receive the answer you want? You’ve received more than enough replies on the different threads.
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Hormones. Being young. Just wanting to have a good time and experience new things. Doubt it has any deep meaning.
Even if they were together 2+ years?
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l wouldnt consider that messing around ngl.

Thought this would be like if he used to sleep around etc
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Even if they were together 2+ years?
Doesn't mean he ever felt she was marriage material - hence not taking her home to meet his parents. Young people often stay in relationships that aren't ever going to go anywhere just because they enjoy them for what they are in the moment.
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I'm of Indian ethnicity and this whole caste thing is so stupid.
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My boyfriends parents are strict and have always wanted to make sure he marries within his caste. His ex was a different caste...they were together a couple of years but he never told his parents about her. They would go out drinking a lot together, but my bf told his mum he’s only been out like 5 times (partying).

I’m the same caste as my bf and he told his parents about me straight away..they are happy and we get on really well. I rarely drink and my bf loves this about me. He always talks about the importance of keeping his parents happy, as well as me.

If he’s so keen on making sure his parents are happy, why did he mess around slightly and hide things from them before I came along?!
Because his parents were very strict and he wanted to have sex as he grew up but did not want to hurt his parents. Also, maybe he thought his ex was not the "one" but you are? And you are a new and different gf who is more conservative so of course his parents would like you. Would they be so happy if they thought you were drinking and having sex though?
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How is the caste system still a thing though, jesus.
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How is the caste system still a thing though, jesus.
Because unfortunately in this modern world elitism and racism still exist. And the caste system is both combined!
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Your boyfriend is a manipulative racist that will say anything to anyone to keep them happy while he does what ever he wants.
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