feeling horny most of the time... Watch
So I am a 23 year old virgin who gets horny almost anytime. most of the time its while studying. whenever i go to bed, I have to masturbate to some sort of porn and i just stop before ejaculating and go to sleep with that feeling. then in morning if reading a book or any course work ill get horny again and start doing it and again stop before ejaculating. idk why i do this may be coz i feel very down after i ejaculate.
also lately i have started seeing girls in a very sexual way...is that normal? i see a hot looking girl online or in my university, ill just get the idea of having sex with her even though idk her.
the problem is all the girls ive had crush on, never felt horny to me and i could never gather up the courage to confess to anyone. may be thats coz of my sever anxiety issues, i start getting weird thoughts what might happen if i say this or that. one thing was clear i never felt horny for the girl i liked.
now my present situation is so bad, its like im an animal in the heat waiting to meet anyone and just doing with her. but idk how to approach a random girl. i did make a tinder account but no luck from there.
Not even sure if im losing myself or what...
I'm not surprised you feel like this; you're stimulating yourself but not giving yourself any relief, you must be walking around like a coiled spring.
I'd encourage you to either replace masturbation with physical exercise and reduce stimulation and/or allow yourself to climax.
For most people masturbation is a normal and healthy part of life but for some people it can become a negative thing (often due to the way they feel about masturbation and/or sexuality and not from the masturbation itself).
So I'd encourage you to look at addressing your stress levels and wellbeing, get some exercise and try to rethink your approach to sexuality, masturbation and climaxing. I'd also talk to your doctor and/or university counsellor about any anxiety your feeling.
unfortunately the only thing ive been able to do is exercise and thankfully it has helped me in calming down. i do wish to seek a doctor but i cant coz im jobless and cant really discuss this stuff with my parents.