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I always let him finish in me during sex. But sometimes after he finishes, his penis doesn't go back down for like 5 to 10 minutes. But other times, it goes back down in like a couple minutes. Am I just not giving him complete orgasms if he stays hard after sex? I always feel his *** drip back out, but maybe he isnt satisfied if it's still hard?

And dont get me wrong, if I notice that he is still hard a few minutes later, I offer more sex, but he turns it down and tells me that he doesnt think he'll come again for a few hours. But if hes satisfied, then why is his **** still hard after he cums? I'm asking because I read that guys penises go down within a minute after they ***.
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I always let him finish in me during sex. But sometimes after he finishes, his penis doesn't go back down for like 5 to 10 minutes. But other times, it goes back down in like a couple minutes. Am I just not giving him complete orgasms if he stays hard after sex? I always feel his *** drip back out, but maybe he isnt satisfied if it's still hard?

And dont get me wrong, if I notice that he is still hard a few minutes later, I offer more sex, but he turns it down and tells me that he doesnt think he'll come again for a few hours. But if hes satisfied, then why is his **** still hard after he cums? I'm asking because I read that guys penises go down within a minute after they ***.
it can be hard don’t worry ye. n plus sex again would drain him dry so give the guy a chance
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it can be hard don’t worry ye. n plus sex again would drain him dry so give the guy a chance
So am I not giving him good enough orgasms which is why he stays hard for a little bit after?
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So am I not giving him good enough orgasms which is why he stays hard for a little bit after?
nah u are but he’s saying faster cause he’s probs close to coming

let’s be real if u weren’t then i’m sure he wouldn’t be having sex with u so i’m sure ur doing a good job ye. plus with a guy it’s easy orgasm is an orgasm
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nah u are but he’s saying faster cause he’s probs close to coming

let’s be real if u weren’t then i’m sure he wouldn’t be having sex with u so i’m sure ur doing a good job ye. plus with a guy it’s easy orgasm is an orgasm
So its normal for a guy to stay hard after sex sometimes?
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Because you turn him on, men usually can't come twice in a row they have to wait at leas half and hour or so.
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Because you turn him on, men usually can't come twice in a row they have to wait at leas half and hour or so.
He's not cumming twice.. he cuns in me once and when he pulls out, he's still hard sometimes for like 5 to 10 minutes. I'm worried that means he's either not cumming or not having good orgasms sometimes.
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I always let him finish in me during sex. But sometimes after he finishes, his penis doesn't go back down for like 5 to 10 minutes. But other times, it goes back down in like a couple minutes. Am I just not giving him complete orgasms if he stays hard after sex? I always feel his *** drip back out, but maybe he isnt satisfied if it's still hard?

And dont get me wrong, if I notice that he is still hard a few minutes later, I offer more sex, but he turns it down and tells me that he doesnt think he'll come again for a few hours. But if hes satisfied, then why is his **** still hard after he cums? I'm asking because I read that guys penises go down within a minute after they ***.
No. I think you are misunderstanding some ir most guys. With some guys coming means being satisfied and they can still be erect for some time afterwards and are happy, if you want, to reinsert in you and carry on! Other guys are satisfied and then lose the erection straight afterwards. Both are fine and normal. Once a guy fully ejaculates it will be virtually impossible for him to ejaculate again half an hour later. but he can still get hard and enter you again!- but there's less chance of him ejaculating.
Talk to your guy about what he feels. I think it would be nice for you to find a way of making use of that continued erection after he comes, but ask him! lol.
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So am I not giving him good enough orgasms which is why he stays hard for a little bit after?
You are give him orgasms but his penis takes a bit longer to drain the blood away. Which means he is a guy whose erections are reliable and lasting! Yoy could try oral on him at that stage. Guys don't usually object to the idea! wear him out! lol.
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No. I think you are misunderstanding some ir most guys. With some guys coming means being satisfied and they can still be erect for some time afterwards and are happy, if you want, to reinsert in you and carry on! Other guys are satisfied and then lose the erection straight afterwards. Both are fine and normal. Once a guy fully ejaculates it will be virtually impossible for him to ejaculate again half an hour later. but he can still get hard and enter you again!- but there's less chance of him ejaculating.
Talk to your guy about what he feels. I think it would be nice for you to find a way of making use of that continued erection after he comes, but ask him! lol.
Do you think he'd be able to *** again an hour later? Because he has came in me before and then about 30 minutes later, we ****ed again and it took him awhile to ***, but he still came I think. Maybe he faked it?
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Do you think he'd be able to *** again an hour later? Because he has came in me before and then about 30 minutes later, we ****ed again and it took him awhile to ***, but he still came I think. Maybe he faked it?
No he probably didn' t fake it. If he empties most of what he has you can, as you found out, still f..k again but he won't produce the same amount of c..m as did half an hour earlier. Why because it takes time for a guy to make more sperm. But you don't have to worry, guys very rarely fake orgasms because what do they gain? just a whole load of frustration and if you know you guy and you know what c..m smells like you will know. I don't believe any guy who says that he can have 3 orgasms a day and produce equal amounts of c..m each time! No way. I have known of women who can have 8 orgasms a day. Guys can do no such thing. But if your guy keeps his erection well when he comes (or even if he doesn't c..m but stays hard) then you are fortunate. Work him over a bit more.lol.
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No he probably didn' t fake it. If he empties most of what he has you can, as you found out, still f..k again but he won't produce the same amount of c..m as did half an hour earlier. Why because it takes time for a guy to make more sperm. But you don't have to worry, guys very rarely fake orgasms because what do they gain? just a whole load of frustration and if you know you guy and you know what c..m smells like you will know. I don't believe any guy who says that he can have 3 orgasms a day and produce equal amounts of c..m each time! No way. I have known of women who can have 8 orgasms a day. Guys can do no such thing. But if your guy keeps his erection well when he comes (or even if he doesn't c..m but stays hard) then you are fortunate. Work him over a bit more.lol.
Well, I had sex.with him last night and we were in missionary with my legs over my head. He was pretty deep. And the sex was exceptionally hot. He usually cums in me and when he pulls out, a lot of his *** just drips out. But last night when he pulled out, nothing really came back out. I think maybe a drop came out and landed on the bed, but even when I stood up awhile later, nothing had dripped back out of me. Does it sound like he faked last night? His *** usually comes back out of me after sex.. does the vagina absorb semen or what? Lol where did his *** go if he actually came? Sorry for all the dumb questions.
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Well, I had sex.with him last night and we were in missionary with my legs over my head. He was pretty deep. And the sex was exceptionally hot. He usually cums in me and when he pulls out, a lot of his *** just drips out. But last night when he pulled out, nothing really came back out. I think maybe a drop came out and landed on the bed, but even when I stood up awhile later, nothing had dripped back out of me. Does it sound like he faked last night? His *** usually comes back out of me after sex.. does the vagina absorb semen or what? Lol where did his *** go if he actually came? Sorry for all the dumb questions.
It could be that he released inside of you without you feeling it and that you just saw the remains of c.. on his d..k! It can take longer than a few minutes to drip out.
Or it could be that he didn't have much in his b..lls to ejaculate. Does he masterbate as well? if he does-fine- but he will have less to ejaculate i suppose. Does he enjoy having sex? Sounds like he does to be honest judging by his continuing hardness. Talk to him ,out of interest ,about sex. Does he talk to you about what the hardness carrying on means? maybe its just the way he is? Does he want a bj afterwards? Does he want sex for longer? Do you feel sexually satisfied? Do you trust him? Does he lie to you generally? Why would you suspect him of faking at orgasm while he deeply penetrates you in the way you have described? It is hard to see what the point of him doing that would be? Why have super hot sex and fake anything? and stay frustrated?
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I always let him finish in me during sex. But sometimes after he finishes, his penis doesn't go back down for like 5 to 10 minutes. But other times, it goes back down in like a couple minutes. Am I just not giving him complete orgasms if he stays hard after sex? I always feel his *** drip back out, but maybe he isnt satisfied if it's still hard?

And dont get me wrong, if I notice that he is still hard a few minutes later, I offer more sex, but he turns it down and tells me that he doesnt think he'll come again for a few hours. But if hes satisfied, then why is his **** still hard after he cums? I'm asking because I read that guys penises go down within a minute after they ***.
deffo got an std, dont know what else to tell you love. youre both f***ed.
get ready to sign on folks!!
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deffo got an std, dont know what else to tell you love. youre both f***ed.
get ready to sign on folks!!
A post to be ignored. Too silly!
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It could be that he released inside of you without you feeling it and that you just saw the remains of c.. on his d..k! It can take longer than a few minutes to drip out.
Or it could be that he didn't have much in his b..lls to ejaculate. Does he masterbate as well? if he does-fine- but he will have less to ejaculate i suppose. Does he enjoy having sex? Sounds like he does to be honest judging by his continuing hardness. Talk to him ,out of interest ,about sex. Does he talk to you about what the hardness carrying on means? maybe its just the way he is? Does he want a bj afterwards? Does he want sex for longer? Do you feel sexually satisfied? Do you trust him? Does he lie to you generally? Why would you suspect him of faking at orgasm while he deeply penetrates you in the way you have described? It is hard to see what the point of him doing that would be? Why have super hot sex and fake anything? and stay frustrated?
Well, the *** never came back out. It usually does. If he ejaculated deep inside and it was a smaller load, is it possible for my vagina to absorb his semen? And sometimes after sex, I'll put my mouth on his **** to clean it off and itll get hard again, but he says he doesnt think he'll *** again for awhile. And other times, I'll put it in my mouth after sex and he wont get hard again for awhile. Does this mean that hes not having great orgasms with me when he gets hard from my mouth after sex?
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Well, the *** never came back out. It usually does. If he ejaculated deep inside and it was a smaller load, is it possible for my vagina to absorb his semen? And sometimes after sex, I'll put my mouth on his **** to clean it off and itll get hard again, but he says he doesnt think he'll *** again for awhile. And other times, I'll put it in my mouth after sex and he wont get hard again for awhile. Does this mean that hes not having great orgasms with me when he gets hard from my mouth after sex?
No it means that he has very good erections. Your vagina can absorb small amounts of semen because it woukd be like smear it around inside your vag; it wouldn't drip!
You definitely turn him on! Otherwise he wouldn't come at all. A guy can't really have multiple wet orgasms like some women can! You did bj him after sex as well. He gets completely satisfied by you after sex and oral. Then his erection goes down. That is quite normal. A man can't hold his erections all day unless he takes something like arginine or viagra and your bf definitely does not need them.
Read the article:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)
The guy has to have a recover period (refractory period) after he has shot his load regardless of how much load it is!
If you want to check how much load he can produce just find out when he last released his load. If it has been a couple of days then you can "experiment" on him. Do a slow,long , chatty teasing lubricated hand job on him until he c..ms! Then you can see how much load he has.
If he is also masturbating by himself often then try being really intimate with him more often?
Does this help?
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No it means that he has very good erections. Your vagina can absorb small amounts of semen because it woukd be like smear it around inside your vag; it wouldn't drip!
You definitely turn him on! Otherwise he wouldn't come at all. A guy can't really have multiple wet orgasms like some women can! You did bj him after sex as well. He gets completely satisfied by you after sex and oral. Then his erection goes down. That is quite normal. A man can't hold his erections all day unless he takes something like arginine or viagra and your bf definitely does not need them.
Read the article:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)
The guy has to have a recover period (refractory period) after he has shot his load regardless of how much load it is!
If you want to check how much load he can produce just find out when he last released his load. If it has been a couple of days then you can "experiment" on him. Do a slow,long , chatty teasing lubricated hand job on him until he c..ms! Then you can see how much load he has.
If he is also masturbating by himself often then try being really intimate with him more often?
Does this help?
Can *** be watery sometimes too? Also, if he gets hard shortly after sex, could that mean he didnt het completely satisfied?
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Can *** be watery sometimes too? Also, if he gets hard shortly after sex, could that mean he didnt het completely satisfied?
No it means you are doing things that turn him on! This happens to quite a lot of guys. It just means they are up for more sex! If he gets hard go back with him and work him over again! lol. Did you read that recovery period link i gave you?Watery semen may just simply have less sperm in it! The balls make sperm and the prostate gland mixes liquid with it to produce what you call semen, right?
(And did you know that guys can get BFNR? (random) boners for no reason! when they are not even with a partner or thinking about sex!)
He is a nice guy and you enjoy sex , right? Do longer sessions? Make sure you get what you need as well,right?
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FFS ! Stop bit**in about his cu*. Men are not fire extinguishers.Your expectations are far too high, which means no guy will satisfy you unless sex is exactly what you want. Try asking hm what makes HIM happy - not you. My bf cums sometimes and not others, and sometimes I am wet and not other times. thats normal.
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