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I’m nearly 4 inches so I would be to small for a woman?.what do you women say.?
Original post by Anonymous
I’m nearly 4 inches so I would be to small for a woman?.what do you women say.?

Maybe a little bit too small. (Mine is 4 inches too and I think is a little bit too small, but is not something I would worry about. You need to learn how to use it.
I am not a woman thought, but I have a boyfriend and his penis is quite a bit bigger than mine, his is 5.7 inches and he loves me anyway. Obviously it will depend on the person, some will care, other's won't.
Original post by Anonymous
The thing is I can't understand the reason why my penis is small becuase I am tall. If I was short I would understand. Every other part of my body (fingers, toes etc) is normal size (ie what you'd expect for my weight/height).

It's a bit like putting the engine of a mini cooper into a ford mustang.

Another thing is that I imagine my penis would be pretty much useless for sex unless it was erect becuase it's more like a knob rather than a sauasage shape.

Same here mate, well I believe it’s the same cus I’m taller. I’m 6’4 with a 6.5 inch erect and a 2.5 inch Flacid and it just feels like I’m letting down whoever the girl I’m with at time
Original post by Anonymous
The thing is I can't understand the reason why my penis is small becuase I am tall. If I was short I would understand. Every other part of my body (fingers, toes etc) is normal size (ie what you'd expect for my weight/height).

It's a bit like putting the engine of a mini cooper into a ford mustang.

Another thing is that I imagine my penis would be pretty much useless for sex unless it was erect becuase it's more like a knob rather than a sauasage shape.


Original post by Anonymous
Why not though? It’s like a tall person having really small fingers. It just doesn’t make much sense.

Im 6’4 and have the shortest fingers out of everyone I know, even 5ft women
Reply 24
Original post by Anonymous
Same here mate, well I believe it’s the same cus I’m taller. I’m 6’4 with a 6.5 inch erect and a 2.5 inch Flacid and it just feels like I’m letting down whoever the girl I’m with at time


It is well known that height and penis length are not related! And i hope you are more than just a penis? Don't you need a personality as well?
Original post by Anonymous
The thing is I can't understand the reason why my penis is small becuase I am tall. If I was short I would understand. Every other part of my body (fingers, toes etc) is normal size (ie what you'd expect for my weight/height).

It's a bit like putting the engine of a mini cooper into a ford mustang.

Another thing is that I imagine my penis would be pretty much useless for sex unless it was erect becuase it's more like a knob rather than a sauasage shape.

Any penis is useless for sex unless it is erect lol
Original post by mgi
It is well known that height and penis length are not related! And i hope you are more than just a penis? Don't you need a personality as well?

Yeah I get u, but I can’t stop thinking about it and believe me I know I shouldn’t care cus some people have 4 inches and there like 5’5 height wise, and it’s more important to be kind and caring but like the thought of it doesn’t leave my head, and with social media saying how girls would disappointed with anything less than 7.5 doesn’t help with the anxiety of it either
Reply 27
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I get u, but I can’t stop thinking about it and believe me I know I shouldn’t care cus some people have 4 inches and there like 5’5 height wise, and it’s more important to be kind and caring but like the thought of it doesn’t leave my head, and with social media saying how girls would disappointed with anything less than 7.5 doesn’t help with the anxiety of it either

Are you sexually experienced? if so, what's the problem?
Original post by mgi
Are you sexually experienced? if so, what's the problem?

I had a year long relationship threw the age 17 to 18 and a 1 other 1 night stand when I just turned 18. But now I’m 20 in a couple months and haven’t been with anyone. An opportunity came up when came up early in 2019 and she grabbed it while flacid and laughed ffs 😂, and then it just awkwardly ended, ****ed me up ever since 😂
Original post by Corban Hart
don't worry . everything will be fine, your permanent girlfriend will understand you

Hopefully, but I’ve just got the constant fear that she’ll cheat or leave me for a well hung guy
Original post by FRS500
Nothing to do with height tbh. I'm 5'8 in height but my dong is over 7 inches.

Honestly, your GF doesn't know your size if she hasn't had sex with you and it isn't likely to be a problem anyway.

The average penis is supposedly 5.5cm. A vagina on average isn't even this deep.

Be confident in yourself (perfomance anxiety is a real thing) and get to know what you and your partner both like. Over time you will have enjoyable sex which is a lot more than trying to stuff as much meat in her hole as humanely possible.

Yeah I understand, now I reckon I wouldn’t even get a stalk on because of how fearful I am. And tbh it’s not the erection that bothers me, because that’s not too bad, but the Flacid on the other hand just doesn’t look right 😂 and it would 💯 be a turn off for all girls
Reply 31
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I understand, now I reckon I wouldn’t even get a stalk on because of how fearful I am. And tbh it’s not the erection that bothers me, because that’s not too bad, but the Flacid on the other hand just doesn’t look right 😂 and it would 💯 be a turn off for all girls

lmao a softie means nothing. It'll only be flaccid for a bit

You're good to go mate!
Original post by FRS500
lmao a softie means nothing. It'll only be flaccid for a bit

You're good to go mate!

Yeah to me I know it means nothing, but the girl didn’t even give the **** a chance to grow 😂, and just was like nah and wouldn’t let me go near her. Cheers for the support anyways mate
Reply 33
Original post by Anonymous
I had a year long relationship threw the age 17 to 18 and a 1 other 1 night stand when I just turned 18. But now I’m 20 in a couple months and haven’t been with anyone. An opportunity came up when came up early in 2019 and she grabbed it while flacid and laughed ffs 😂, and then it just awkwardly ended, ****ed me up ever since 😂


that was not your fault. She was very childish and clearly had no clue what to do with it when it is flaccid.! You need to forget about her and her attitude. Did you take a look at her bits; was she perfect? definitely not.
Just build up your own confidence regardless of what people think. None of your future girlfriends will be perfect either- so why should you be?
Only very shallow women will care about this if they really like someone. Women are much more interested in someone who is caring and supportive - they aren't going to leave you for a well hung jerk if you're a nice, loving guy!

As others have said, learn to be great in bed in other ways, and even if it did matter (which it won't for many), you can find ways to keep her satisfied. Tip: The internet is full of advice.

That said, lots of girls down want a big guy anyway - it's not always comfortable (just as some men are small, some girls are small, too!), and some guys can be terrible in bed because they rely on a big penis and don't bother learning about women's bodies and what they enjoy.
Original post by Anonymous
So I’m 21 years old, nearly 6 feet tall, long arms, long legs, big fingers and yet I’ve got this really small penis.

I’ve measured it as accurately as I can and it’s about 2.5 inches at its smallest and around 4 inches at its absolute biggest. It’s around 1 - 1 1/4 inches wide.

It’s really annoying because people say I’m cute and good looking etc but of course they never seen my penis.

I do have a girlfriend currently but she’s not interested in sex and has never seen my penis before.

I just can’t understand it. You don’t see a 6 foot lad with tiny arms do you do? So why do I have the penis size the size of a 12 year old?

I see many guys on here saying they have 6 or 7 inch penis and I’m so envious

I’m 12 and I have more than you, I have 8.7 inches
Original post by Anonymous
So I’m 21 years old, nearly 6 feet tall, long arms, long legs, big fingers and yet I’ve got this really small penis.

I’ve measured it as accurately as I can and it’s about 2.5 inches at its smallest and around 4 inches at its absolute biggest. It’s around 1 - 1 1/4 inches wide.

It’s really annoying because people say I’m cute and good looking etc but of course they never seen my penis.

I do have a girlfriend currently but she’s not interested in sex and has never seen my penis before.

I just can’t understand it. You don’t see a 6 foot lad with tiny arms do you do? So why do I have the penis size the size of a 12 year old?

I see many guys on here saying they have 6 or 7 inch penis and I’m so envious.

I’m 12 and my **** is 6 inches
Original post by Anonymous
So I’m 21 years old, nearly 6 feet tall, long arms, long legs, big fingers and yet I’ve got this really small penis.

I’ve measured it as accurately as I can and it’s about 2.5 inches at its smallest and around 4 inches at its absolute biggest. It’s around 1 - 1 1/4 inches wide.

It’s really annoying because people say I’m cute and good looking etc but of course they never seen my penis.

I do have a girlfriend currently but she’s not interested in sex and has never seen my penis before.

I just can’t understand it. You don’t see a 6 foot lad with tiny arms do you do? So why do I have the penis size the size of a 12 year old?

I see many guys on here saying they have 6 or 7 inch penis and I’m so envious.

I’m 12 and my **** is 6 inches