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Is there anyway to shut this bully up or show this person.up?

Him:

1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night" at a Christmas party.
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm going to graduate with a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad" 2015.
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others" 2013.
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking" 2014 leic.
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely 2014 Bradford final.
7) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9) Last three Christmas parties in 2015, 2016 and 2017 he acknowledge others but ignored me quite ruthlessly.
10) At a party he acted big towards me and told a lie.
11) called me and his brother prats.
12) hasn't bothered to acknowledge me properly for the last 4 years.
13) behind my back he says sarcastic things.
14) At my other cousins party he just ignored me and said to my other cousin "how's work" and started talking about his work and office how he has coffee and that.
15) And saying its quiet in this room to show me up


16) Also he has had a go at my dad

I've done nothing wrong to him. He and his mom will never acknowledge me properly.

He is a bully and snake. He's done a bit more to.

He neglect me at parties etc. He would sit next to me and just won't talk to me for hours an hours straight and will not acknowledge me, talk to others but not me.

He did squirm last time when he heard something good of me. Maybe he doesn't like hearing good things about me.

It seems like he just wants to be superior to me.

He does gossip about me to others.

His brother said to him "I'm starting a business" to which he goes "I've been saying that for 3 years".
Why.. are you around this person so much if he’s bullying you?

Doesn’t sound like a high school situation where he’s being malicious in the hallways if your whole family’s involved, hun.
Sounds like he needs a good hiding.
Reply 3
Hardly any of those are bullying. He just sounds like a bit of a ****.
Reply 4
Thanks all.

Then how do I show him up give him a good hiding?

He used to act like having money and position is everything. Now I'm doing better then him he acts like anything is good enough.

He wants to make me react.

How can I make him squirm? To him he doesn't want me to do better then him.
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
Thanks all.

Then how do I show him up give him a good hiding?

He used to act like having money and position is everything. Now I'm doing better then him he acts like anything is good enough.

He wants to make me react.

How can I make him squirm? To him he doesn't want me to do better then him.

You don't.

Don't be an idiot
Original post by Anonymous
Thanks all.

Then how do I show him up give him a good hiding?

He used to act like having money and position is everything. Now I'm doing better then him he acts like anything is good enough.

He wants to make me react.

How can I make him squirm? To him he doesn't want me to do better then him.

Grow up and avoid him. You’re not in high school anymore. You’re an adult.
Reply 7
17) he said to his brother sarcastically look at how I look in 2016 xmas.
18) he told me to get off like i was a kid late dec 2017.

But he wants to have the upper hand.
You don't need to show him up or do anything. Be the bigger person and just ignore him completely the way he does to you. If he does speak to you be polite and civil but don't bother trying to be friendly or nice.
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
17) he said to his brother sarcastically look at how I look in 2016 xmas.

You've been harbouring that ****ty random fact for nearly 3 years?

You need a new hobby.
(edited 4 years ago)
Original post by Anonymous
17) he said to his brother sarcastically look at how I look in 2016 xmas.
18) he told me to get off like i was a kid late dec 2017.

But he wants to have the upper hand.

How about you stay away? You seem like the obsessed one, keeping track of everything he’s done to you while still being around him 24/7. Get a grip hun. If you weren’t a “kid” in 2017 then you definitely aren’t now.
How many similar threads have you made?

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