Should I ask her out again?

Hey everyone,

So there's this girl who I asked out a very long time ago in secondary school but she rejected me. During that time, I was overweight and quite shy towards her. Although, we sort of had a relationship in which we understood each other very well - probably the best way I can describe it. We knew each other since primary school until we split colleges. Our physical interactions declined and started to talk rarely.
The first time I asked her out, she rejected me with a quite harsh 'no, sorry' and she deleted/blocked me off Facebook and Instagram.

I am now at university, lost a lot of weight and completely changed my personality and outlook on life. I am much more confident, but feeling lonely. Trust me, staying in a dorm and going to parties is not the best life...

A few months ago, I started to talk to her again and she seemed quite friendly. However, she started ignoring me after a few days. I am currently debating whether to message her if she has a boyfriend (because she is honestly too beautiful for this world). I honestly can't keep talking to her knowing she has a boyfriend and my heart being broken again.

send us/me a pic of yourself, or a link of your instagram and then I can tell you. Because unfortunately it depends on how much attractive you are now.

Did she tell you why she rejected you the first time?
Did she unblock you?
Try to understand what’s going on in her life at the moment, and if it appears she is not in a relationship and ready for one.
I think she’d appreciate the fact that you still think of her, but if she doesn’t like you for specific reasons then you could look like mr.universe and be as popular as you can but she still wouldn’t care. Sorry if this sounds rude, but I’m afraid it’s the truth😅

It is really important to understand why she rejected you the first time. Also, have you been in contact lately?

I think you should not ask her out again, she treated you like dirt yet you still like her. I would stop being interested in a woman that treated me like that.
There's plenty of woman out there and you should stop putting this perticular one on a pedalstall.
Also don't let her know your feelings as she will probably just make fun.

If she started ignoring you after a few days when you spoke in recent months then I'd say it's pretty clear she's not interested.

If she started ignoring you after a few days when you spoke in recent months then I'd say it's pretty clear she's not interested.