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I'm heart broken as I was so stupid.
A female manager liked me, she showed me signs and she would let me off with alot at work that others would be sacked for. Oneday I took it too far and I had to be sacked, she just sent a P45 without a letter or meeting. I left on good terms (didn't talk badly to her and she gave me reference still)

Oneday I was in town a good time after my sacking waiting to cross the street and I sensed someone rushing towards me, it turned out to be her, she had a pram and I literally had to jump out of the way as it probably would have hit me.
What she do that you think?
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Déjà vu.
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I'm heart broken as I was so stupid.
A female manager liked me, she showed me signs and she would let me off with alot at work that others would be sacked for. Oneday I took it too far and I had to be sacked, she just sent a P45 without a letter or meeting. I left on good terms (didn't talk badly to her and she gave me reference still)

Oneday I was in town a good time after my sacking waiting to cross the street and I sensed someone rushing towards me, it turned out to be her, she had a pram and I literally had to jump out of the way as it probably would have hit me.
What she do that you think?
correct me if I'm wrong but when you say "she let me off with alot at work that others would get fired for" it sounds like u may have been flirting with her or making sexual comments or maybe even touching her gently. if that is the case then when you say "one day I took it too far" you probably mean you touched her inappropriately or said something too direct. if both of my guesses are correct its likely she fired you because she's in a relationship and she didn't want to cheat. based on all of this, I suspect she isn't in a happy relationship and may still have feelings for you. the reason she tried too hit you with her pushchair was either to get your attention and/or let you know she has a child (if u didn't already know).
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correct me if I'm wrong but when you say "she let me off with alot at work that others would get fired for" it sounds like u may have been flirting with her or making sexual comments or maybe even touching her gently. if that is the case then when you say "one day I took it too far" you probably mean you touched her inappropriately or said something too direct. if both of my guesses are correct its likely she fired you because she's in a relationship and she didn't want to cheat. based on all of this, I suspect she isn't in a happy relationship and may still have feelings for you. the reason she tried too hit you with her pushchair was either to get your attention and/or let you know she has a child (if u didn't already know).
No, I never made a move on her.
I was sacked for turning up drunk to work. And the stuff she let me off with before was turning up late each time and sometimes not even turning up to rotered shifts
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No, I never made a move on her.
I was sacked for turning up drunk to work. And the stuff she let me off with before was turning up late each time and sometimes not even turning up to rotered shifts
ohh😐.
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ohh😐.
Can make sense of all of this for me?
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Can make sense of all of this for me?
its likely she let you get away with all the lateness and absence because she liked you but then maybe she thought u were taking advantage and decided to fire you or maybe she fired you because as your manager she can be held accountable for some of your actions. she might have just been protecting herself which is probably the reason she couldn't fire you face to face and still gave you a reference. I think she may have pushed her pushchair into you to get attention or b0ticed by you. (females always resort to these tactics)
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its likely she let you get away with all the lateness and absence because she liked you but then maybe she thought u were taking advantage and decided to fire you or maybe she fired you because as your manager she can be held accountable for some of your actions. she might have just been protecting herself which is probably the reason she couldn't fire you face to face and still gave you a reference. I think she may have pushed her pushchair into you to get attention or b0ticed by you. (females always resort to these tactics)
Thanks for answer. How old are you?
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Thanks for answer. How old are you?
I'm an adult
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I'm an adult
Alright cool, just on your profile it says junior
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You've posted this before. Why the repeat?
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Oh shut up
She probably wishes she'd said that to you ages ago, before you abused her trust.
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Déjà vu.
Indeed, although this time there's no mention of turning up to work drunk.

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho...highlight=pram
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I'm an adult
So what do you make of it all?
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Oh shut up
your peachy perosonality may have something to do with why she tried to pram crash you
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your peachy perosonality may have something to do with why she tried to pram crash you
You shouldn't join in conversations that don't involve you. Your parents obviously haven't taught you well
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You shouldn't join in conversations that don't involve you. Your parents obviously haven't taught you well
Oh, the irony! Next time you see yours ask why they didn't teach you about how to do a job or about how to repay people who put their trust in you.
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Oh, the irony! Next time you see yours ask why they didn't teach you about how to do a job or about how to repay people who put their trust in you.
Well I'm heart broken over what I did. I didn't mean to destroy her trust, but you on the other hand just want to perverse the situation that happened and be rude and butt in.
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Well I'm heart broken over what I did. I didn't mean to destroy her trust, but you on the other hand just want to perverse the situation that happened and be rude and butt in.
"Perverse"?
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