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I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend but we didnt use protection... He pulled out a few minutes before he came but im scared that it may not have worked... Im only 16 and my family will kill me if i am pregnant. He has had sex multiple times before and so he knows when to pull out on time but im just worried, especially as we are both against abortion completely so that is out of the question if i am. What should i do, my family cant know i had sex this young and early?
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I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend but we didnt use protection... He pulled out a few minutes before he came but im scared that it may not have worked... Im only 16 and my family will kill me if i am pregnant. He has had sex multiple times before and so he knows when to pull out on time but im just worried, especially as we are both against abortion completely so that is out of the question if i am. What should i do, my family cant know i had sex this young and early?
Take a pregnancy test and check if you are pregnant. Just tell your mother you are going out with friends and go and buy one. Also, maybe if you tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable having sex as it gives you pregnancy scares, or just avoid sex for the period until you are comfortable with your family knowing you have had sex.
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I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend but we didnt use protection... He pulled out a few minutes before he came but im scared that it may not have worked... Im only 16 and my family will kill me if i am pregnant. He has had sex multiple times before and so he knows when to pull out on time but im just worried, especially as we are both against abortion completely so that is out of the question if i am. What should i do, my family cant know i had sex this young and early?
Lol what's wrong with you ...go get the contraceptive pill right now....go to a pharmacy... no time to waste just drop what you're doing now and go!!!!

Can you afford a pill? If not i think you can get one in A & E for free? Not too sure but should be possible
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Lol what's wrong with you ...go get the contraceptive pill right now....go to a pharmacy... no time to waste just drop what you're doing now and go!!!!

Can you afford a pill? If not i think you can get one in A & E for free? Not too sure but should be possible
Emergency contraceptive pill*
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I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend but we didnt use protection... He pulled out a few minutes before he came but im scared that it may not have worked... Im only 16 and my family will kill me if i am pregnant. He has had sex multiple times before and so he knows when to pull out on time but im just worried, especially as we are both against abortion completely so that is out of the question if i am. What should i do, my family cant know i had sex this young and early?
I may not be the best person to say anything but I've had friends with a similar problem. First of all you should definitely get a pregnancy test asap. if it hasn't been long you should take some pills which again a professional would recommend. i really hope you are not pregnant but even if the guy pulls out there's a chance of getting pregnant, but i really hope you're not.
if god forbid you are, then you guys should definitely serious action as you both are against abortion. try talking to a counselor or a close friend who is experienced in this scenario.
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firstly take a deep breath then go get yourself a morning after pill. And BE SAFE the next time you have sex.
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Yeah.. the 'pull out' is a trick that you need to master unfortunately, a bit like pouring a perfect Guinness.

Just take a after morning pill next time, and check if pregnant.
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First, relax and go and buy the morning after pill.
I don't get why Brits have unsafe sex, when contraception is free on the NHS.
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Anonymous #2
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(Original post by Sophiejxnee)
Take a pregnancy test and check if you are pregnant. Just tell your mother you are going out with friends and go and buy one. Also, maybe if you tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable having sex as it gives you pregnancy scares, or just avoid sex for the period until you are comfortable with your family knowing you have had sex.
How can she take a pregnancy test when she said it happened yesterday? Very bad advice ....

Go get the emergency pill.....and only after two weeks i think can you actually take a test with accurate results .....

And you need to see a gp if you plan on having more sex so they can advise you on long term contraception...

Also always insist he use a condom don't allow him to just do stuff on a whim...you don't want pregnancy at 16? Don't have sex without protection!!!

And need to protect yourself from stds as well
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If he didn't ejaculate inside you the risk of pregnancy is miniscule. The reason the pull out method doesn't work is because men get carried away and fail to pull out in time, the risk of pregnancy from pre-ejaculate is minimal.

That is still no excuse not to protect yourself for next time. If your bf was willing to have sex with you without a condom he likely did the same with previous girls. You are at risk of STDs and at risk of pregnancy. Look after yourself.
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Your boyfriend has had sex multiple times before and neither of you wants a baby. Two good reasons there to wear a condom, because they protect against sexually transmitted diseases as well as being a contraceptive. Your boyfriend isn't experienced, he's immature if he thinks he can take risks like relying on pulling out or passing something on to you; not all STIs have symptoms, so you should both get checked for those, as well as being pregnant.

The saying is, if you have unprotected sex, you are having sex with everyone your partner has ever slept with. How old is your boyfriend, anyway? Can't decide if he's young and boastful, or older and playing on your inexperience.
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Morning after pill before its too late
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Use the morning after pill ASAP. Use protection in the future though not only for pregnancy but also STDs
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Thanks everyone, i will see to this asap, he is 21 but i personally dont feel as though that is an issue although others might, as we both see each other as equal
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Thanks everyone, i will see to this asap, he is 21 but i personally dont feel as though that is an issue although others might, as we both see each other as equal
He's not treating you as an equal when it's your body that he is putting at risk of pregnancy and STIs! What was his reasoning behind having unprotected sex?
Doing that at 21 with a 16yo sounds manipulative, and I am now concerned for you and whether you are ready for a relationship, given that you went along with this without understanding the implications. Make sure he takes equal responsibility for contraception in future and don't take no for an answer! If he doesn't like it, move on.
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