Need Some Advice Watch
A few weeks ago, I was really struggling with mental health and schoolwork. We talked and where I had supported her in the past, she supported me. I got a bit better but wasn’t great and then we had some space from each other after fell far after some really tough days thinking about what I wanted, the people around me and debating things I had done as I don’t think of others before myself and never look back. To make things worse this led into our school break so I couldn’t speak in person. We got back and that was over in short.
Don’t know what to do as I love her so much as she is the most amazing, beautiful, kind, smart and loving person I had ever met and she had loved me so unconditionally in the same way back.
Just seems a bit arty farty teenage philosophy thinking too hard with such a small brain which destroys all your relationships. Tell her you want to do some Christmas shopping on the weekend if she'd come and help you pick out presents and basically say from the outset you've been a massive **** and want to try get things back on track if she's game to do the same. You simply can't waste any more time overthinking things. Brutal honesty here. If you have a great and long relationship with someone, stop ****ing about and putting it at risk, bottom line.