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My friend said I am old fashioned and chauvinistic (I'm a girl) because I said woman shouldn't have one night stands and sleep with random guys, but it's ok if men do. Am I being out of order?

I explained to her that if I was living with a girl who slept around I would think that was worse than if a guy did it. That's because if she is bringing guys off the street or from a night club she can't restrain that person if things go badly and he turns nasty, and she (and myself) will be overpowered and raped. Men are more likely to be violent than women, as well as drug takers and alcoholics. But if I lived with a boy and he was promiscuous well he can overpower and restrain the random girl he's brought home if she gets weird. That makes me safer as well if I live with him.

So where did I go wrong? I am just stating he facts here, but my friend is saying I'm being sexist to women and women should be able to do anything a man can do.
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Whats with the double standard?
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She's right.
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Whats with the double standard?
Women can't restrain men. They are in a much more vulnerable and risky position than a man in the same situation. The sexes are different. You sound just like my friend, completely missing the point blinded by modern feminazism.
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Your friend is right.
Ons carry an equal risk of hooking up with a psycho or nasty weirdo.
Guys and girls.

Remember secret smile, dressed to kill and fatal attraction?
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Your friend is right.
Ons carry an equal risk of hooking up with a psycho or nasty weirdo.
Guys and girls.

Remember secret smile, dressed to kill and fatal attraction?
Come on women and men do not possess an equal physical threat to one another. You have got to be kidding! Yeah I know the one with boiled rabbit, but I didn't say you don't get weird women sometimes, I said the man can restrain her and violence is less common across the female gender than the male.
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Women can't restrain men. They are in a much more vulnerable and risky position than a man in the same situation. The sexes are different. You sound just like my friend, completely missing the point blinded by modern feminazism.
yikes imagine being so sexist that you have to post anonymously

yes if the situation does occur it's more likely the women's gonna be not able to hold off the man

BUT why should women not be able to sleep around just because of some ******** men? if a man chooses to harass a woman, it is 101% his fault and his fault only. it is not the women's fault for her outfit, not hmthe women's fault for going out at night not her fault at all.

so why should we let something that is not our fault limit our right to a nightlife? yes we should be more careful. but no it is unfair for us to need to ccompletely ERADICATE the right to have one night stands because of something that isn't our fault. it is the men's fault for harassing us. their fault for raping us. teach THEM to respect women instead of limiting us.

if you don't feel safe enough to hv one night stands, dont have them. but don't shame women who have them, and don't blame a rape victim that got assaulted during a one night stand. cos ur mindsets just a form of victim blaming
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How To Wind Up Young Women Vol. I.

Can't believe some of you take this troll srsly.
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Women can't restrain men. They are in a much more vulnerable and risky position than a man in the same situation. The sexes are different. You sound just like my friend, completely missing the point blinded by modern feminazism.
I've fought off and escaped a man trying to overpower me - and it was a "loving boyfriend" who tried it on. Not some stranger I'd pulled in the club.
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My friend said I am old fashioned and chauvinistic (I'm a girl) because I said woman shouldn't have one night stands and sleep with random guys, but it's ok if men do. Am I being out of order?

I explained to her that if I was living with a girl who slept around I would think that was worse than if a guy did it. That's because if she is bringing guys off the street or from a night club she can't restrain that person if things go badly and he turns nasty, and she (and myself) will be overpowered and raped. Men are more likely to be violent than women, as well as drug takers and alcoholics. But if I lived with a boy and he was promiscuous well he can overpower and restrain the random girl he's brought home if she gets weird. That makes me safer as well if I live with him.

So where did I go wrong? I am just stating he facts here, but my friend is saying I'm being sexist to women and women should be able to do anything a man can do.
I feel like it's a guy talking pretending to be a girl
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How To Wind Up Young Women Vol. I.

Can't believe some of you take this troll srsly.
Idk I think this person is acc being serious. Some people still have these backwards views.
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How To Wind Up Young Women Vol. I.

Can't believe some of you take this troll srsly.
And you're the white knight here to save the damsels right? That is patronizing and I'm not a troll. They aren't the only ones getting wound up, it winds me up that so many women are this warped in their thinking that they think it's ok to be alone with a random drunk horny man. They don't see their vulnerability because that goes against the didacts of feminism.
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Idk I think this person is acc being serious. Some people still have these backwards views.
The may believe what they say but it's like me going to a Catholic forum and starting a thread with the title "Virgin Mary likely wasn't so virgin after all: 2000 years of evidence". I may believe that, I may cite sources and whatnot but I'm a troll if my intention was to get on people's nerves rather than have a discussion.

Troll knows this issue is gonna anger girls on this forum 'cos its demographic is very likely to oppose such views.
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And you're the white knight here to save the damsels right? That is patronizing and I'm not a troll. They aren't the only ones getting wound up, it winds me up that so many women are this warped in their thinking that they think it's ok to be alone with a random drunk horny man. They don't see their vulnerability because that goes against the didacts of feminism.
Send me your **** pic pls.
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I've fought off and escaped a man trying to overpower me - and it was a "loving boyfriend" who tried it on. Not some stranger I'd pulled in the club.
Sorry that happened to you, you were lucky to be able to escape. Most women are not able to fight off their attacker because men are physically stronger.
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If a female wants to sleep around and have casual sex then she has every right too, where does it say she shouldn't sleep around
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If a female wants to sleep around and have casual sex then she has every right too, where does it say she shouldn't sleep around
That's not exaclty what I said. I am talking about the safety of sex with random people. Men are more dangerous than women so it's more dangerous for a woman to bring a random man home, than it is the other way around.
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I agree and this is why us women shouldn't be allowed to leave the house without a male escort, should be kept separate from unrelated males in public spaces and should cover up, keep quiet and avoid eye contact to avoid attracting attention and causing a crime to occur.

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That's not exaclty what I said. I am talking about the safety of sex with random people. Men are more dangerous than women so it's more dangerous for a woman to bring a random man home, than it is the other way around.
If they want to bring a random guy home what's wrong with that as long as the usual precautions are used
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I agree and this is why us women shouldn't be allowed to leave the house without a male escort, should be kept separate from unrelated males in public spaces and should cover up, keep quiet and avoid eye contact to avoid attracting attention and causing a crime to occur.

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