Getting over someone

Without going into much detail, I'm having a bit of trouble getting over my ex. We were only together for about 10 weeks, but we spent a lot of time together, I don't think I've ever felt that much for a girl. She dumped me by text, and has since been ignoring me.

I'm fine when I'm out with friends doing something, but it really hurts me when I'm in the house not doing much (like when I go to bed or something). Probably doesn't help that I still haven't got any closure from her - a decent reason would be nice. And as sad as it is, if she suddenly changed her mind, I'd have her back :frown:

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Any advice on getting over her? (can almost hear the "use the search" replies coming, but most of the advice is do stuff with your friends. Well I can't exactly do that at 2am when I'm trying to get to sleep).

Reply 1

x.Fluffy.x

Stage one: The gym - hit the weights and punchbags. HARD.

Stage two: Delete her phone number, email addresses and all other methods you have of contacting her.

Stage three: Go to a supermarket and buy three things - A lighter, pack of ciggarettes and a bottle of whisky.

Stage four: spend a quiet night in drinking and smoking, reliving the good points in your mind but then accepting that it's time to move on.

Stage five: Indulge yourself of pornography (not from the collection of you and her)

Stage six: give it time.

Reply 2

BillV3

14

x.Fluffy.x

Stage one: The gym - hit the weights and punchbags. HARD.

Stage two: Delete her phone number, email addresses and all other methods you have of contacting her.

Stage three: Go to a supermarket and buy three things - A lighter, pack of ciggarettes and a bottle of whisky.

Stage four: spend a quiet night in drinking and smoking, reliving the good points in your mind but then accepting that it's time to move on.

Stage five: Indulge yourself of pornography (not from the collection of you and her)

Stage six: give it time.

If after a while this isn't helping then your other option doesn't involve the ciggarettes.

Reply 3

Sprout_hair

1

Count sheep.. :smile:

Reply 4

anonymous1432

7

Rope,
Chair,

Tie, and throw through her window.

Reply 5

Epic Win

15

WelshBluebird

Any advice on getting over her?

Distance yourself from her, don't try to contact her, spend time with your friends instead.
Go out, have a good time, and if it gets hard, talk to your 'rents about it, it's a bit embarrassing, but they'll have been there too

Reply 6

Adorlee

ouch. breakups are painful and urs sounds pretty crappy :frown:

esp th lack of closure thing. its gona be difficult but distraction is definitely the best method.
also you've got to really want to get over her and resign urself to th fact that shes in ur past, as much as its gona hurt :frown:

good luck.

Reply 7

Epic Win

15

I think Good Charlotte said it best when they said:
"We break up, it's something that we do now,
Everyone has got to do it sometime
It's ok, let it go, get out there and find someone"

ps. No, I don't like Good Charlotte, this line just sticks with me lol

Reply 8

raverquaver

I'v been in this situation alot and nothing you do can really take the pain away. Bein alone around the house and especially at night is the worse time as I am sittin here now feeling the same. I suggest watching a movie or tv programme friends to try and take your mind off things and help you sleep. Mean while when your out with mates clubbing or whatever get numbers from other girls and text them it really does help you with self esteem. Not having closure will cut u up the most but there is a time where you have to put it behind you and move on.

Reply 9

Tufts

17

10 weeks lol Dude you're intense.

Reply 10

ßlαcksωαn

17

WelshBluebird

Without going into much detail, I'm having a bit of trouble getting over my ex. We were only together for about 10 weeks, but we spent a lot of time together, I don't think I've ever felt that much for a girl. She dumped me by text, and has since been ignoring me.

I'm fine when I'm out with friends doing something, but it really hurts me when I'm in the house not doing much (like when I go to bed or something). Probably doesn't help that I still haven't got any closure from her - a decent reason would be nice. And as sad as it is, if she suddenly changed her mind, I'd have her back :frown:

.

Any advice on getting over her? (can almost hear the "use the search" replies coming, but most of the advice is do stuff with your friends. Well I can't exactly do that at 2am when I'm trying to get to sleep).

That's a really **** way to dump you! How long has it been?

Reply 11

WelshBluebird

OP

16

Thanks for all the replies. I'm going to barcalona next week with a few mates, so that should cheer me up lol.

Original post by ßl&#945

That's a really **** way to dump you! How long has it been?

Was last monday, so 11 days now.

Epic Win

I think Good Charlotte said it best when they said:
"We break up, it's something that we do now,
Everyone has got to do it sometime
It's ok, let it go, get out there and find someone"

ps. No, I don't like Good Charlotte, this line just sticks with me lol

hah - funnily enough, I do like good charlotte. Good song lol.

Reply 12

**CutiePie**

1

Epic Win

I think Good Charlotte said it best when they said:
"We break up, it's something that we do now,
Everyone has got to do it sometime
It's ok, let it go, get out there and find someone"

ps. No, I don't like Good Charlotte, this line just sticks with me lol

This line is nice, Mind if I put it in my sig??

Reply 13

ßlαcksωαn

17

WelshBluebird

Thanks for all the replies. I'm going to barcalona next week with a few mates, so that should cheer me up lol. Was last monday, so 11 days now.

Well 11 days is nothing, no wonder you're still hurting :console:

Getting away will give you a chance to get over her.

Reply 14

Epic Win

15

**CutiePie**

This line is nice, Mind if I put it in my sig??

Don't see why not :smile:

Reply 15

**CutiePie**

1

Thankyou

Reply 16

Bexxeh

WelshBluebird

Without going into much detail, I'm having a bit of trouble getting over my ex. We were only together for about 10 weeks, but we spent a lot of time together, I don't think I've ever felt that much for a girl. She dumped me by text, and has since been ignoring me.

I'm fine when I'm out with friends doing something, but it really hurts me when I'm in the house not doing much (like when I go to bed or something). Probably doesn't help that I still haven't got any closure from her - a decent reason would be nice. And as sad as it is, if she suddenly changed her mind, I'd have her back :frown:

.

Any advice on getting over her? (can almost hear the "use the search" replies coming, but most of the advice is do stuff with your friends. Well I can't exactly do that at 2am when I'm trying to get to sleep).

Find an amazing girl ( i dunno maybe in a chat room 3am)
then she will change your life forever, and you show you that
you what love u didnt discover with your ex :smile:

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