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Hi all
So I’m a second year uni student and I have a bit of a weird dilemma. Some friends I made during freshers last year, don’t really talk to them anymore but I’d love to reconnect with them and be part of their group. I just don’t know how to go about it.

Really random but it was my birthday the other day and they all messaged me to wish me a happy birthday, which I was surprised about. I don’t know how to go about trying to make friends with them - it’s weird to just message them out of the blue, what would I even say?

It’s just a weird situation. Don’t really have many uni friends tbh but I don’t want to come across as a loser. What shall I do to try and reconnect?

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I would message them and see if they would like to go out as your "birthday thing". I'm sure they will be up for it as they wished you happy birthday.
Some times we just distant from one another through busy times and lack of effort. Its nothing they will have against you.
You wont come across as a loser, dont worry about that. Have confidence 😊
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(Original post by bioenthusiast)
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Didnt like my answer? Lol
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Didnt like my answer? Lol
I did !! It was helpful!! Was just seeing if there were other thoughts too. Thank you so much though. I just feel awkward messaging them idk what to do
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