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I was hanging out with him yesterday and we both just had fun being together. At around 6pm he told me he wanted to go to the park. I kept saying no because it was cold dark and that park is just scary especially at night. He managed to persuade me.

While walking through the park I had a gut feeling he wanted to do something sexual so before we even got to the bench by the little pond area I told him I didn’t want to do anything and that I’d much rather just cuddle him.

He laughed at me and said ok in a mocking tone so I told him AGAIN I didn’t want to do anything and that we should just turn back around so I can go home. I put my foot down and kept repeating myself so he said fine we’ll just cuddle and make out under the stars which I was fine with..

That wasnt the case when we got there. While kissing he kept grinding into me until he got a hard on. Then he started to ask me to give him a blowjob. I refused many times. He finally said fine then laid me down on the bench and went on top of me. He said “fine if you won’t do anything for me let me do what I want to you” and again...I said no I didn’t want to. It was just so cold and all I wanted was to hug and talk to him but he started to unbutton my jeans and Yh..

“you said you didn’t want to do anything and yet you’re so wet for me” I remember him saying..

After it happened I got up and couldn’t even look him in the eyes BUT I did just move closer to him and started clinging on to him for I don’t know what reason..? Warmth? I really don’t know..I thought it was done and I asked if we could go back but he said no. He wanted something in return.
He just kept asking for a blowjob and I gave in after saying no.

I just felt sooo down after it happened and I don’t know why but the thing is we have done sexual things with each other before and also why did I just cling on to him after?
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yes. no question about it.
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Thats literally rape
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yes. no question about it.
Ah I can see the future!
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I was hanging out with him yesterday and we both just had fun being together. At around 6pm he told me he wanted to go to the park. I kept saying no because it was cold dark and that park is just scary especially at night. He managed to persuade me.

While walking through the park I had a gut feeling he wanted to do something sexual so before we even got to the bench by the little pond area I told him I didn’t want to do anything and that I’d much rather just cuddle him.

He laughed at me and said ok in a mocking tone so I told him AGAIN I didn’t want to do anything and that we should just turn back around so I can go home. I put my foot down and kept repeating myself so he said fine we’ll just cuddle and make out under the stars which I was fine with..

That wasnt the case when we got there. While kissing he kept grinding into me until he got a hard on. Then he started to ask me to give him a blowjob. I refused many times. He finally said fine then laid me down on the bench and went on top of me. He said “fine if you won’t do anything for me let me do what I want to you” and again...I said no I didn’t want to. It was just so cold and all I wanted was to hug and talk to him but he started to unbutton my jeans and Yh..

“you said you didn’t want to do anything and yet you’re so wet for me” I remember him saying..

After it happened I got up and couldn’t even look him in the eyes BUT I did just move closer to him and started clinging on to him for I don’t know what reason..? Warmth? I really don’t know..I thought it was done and I asked if we could go back but he said no. He wanted something in return.
He just kept asking for a blowjob and I gave in after saying no.

I just felt sooo down after it happened and I don’t know why but the thing is we have done sexual things with each other before and also why did I just cling on to him after?
He sexually assaulted you. No ifs, no buts.

Go to the police and tell them what happened.
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Ah I can see the future!
Please **** off, troll.
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Ah I can see the future!
so do i. you sound like another rapist in the making.
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He wanted to be sexual in a public place? How disgusting.
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I was hanging out with him yesterday and we both just had fun being together. At around 6pm he told me he wanted to go to the park. I kept saying no because it was cold dark and that park is just scary especially at night. He managed to persuade me.

While walking through the park I had a gut feeling he wanted to do something sexual so before we even got to the bench by the little pond area I told him I didn’t want to do anything and that I’d much rather just cuddle him.

He laughed at me and said ok in a mocking tone so I told him AGAIN I didn’t want to do anything and that we should just turn back around so I can go home. I put my foot down and kept repeating myself so he said fine we’ll just cuddle and make out under the stars which I was fine with..

That wasnt the case when we got there. While kissing he kept grinding into me until he got a hard on. Then he started to ask me to give him a blowjob. I refused many times. He finally said fine then laid me down on the bench and went on top of me. He said “fine if you won’t do anything for me let me do what I want to you” and again...I said no I didn’t want to. It was just so cold and all I wanted was to hug and talk to him but he started to unbutton my jeans and Yh..

“you said you didn’t want to do anything and yet you’re so wet for me” I remember him saying..

After it happened I got up and couldn’t even look him in the eyes BUT I did just move closer to him and started clinging on to him for I don’t know what reason..? Warmth? I really don’t know..I thought it was done and I asked if we could go back but he said no. He wanted something in return.
He just kept asking for a blowjob and I gave in after saying no.

I just felt sooo down after it happened and I don’t know why but the thing is we have done sexual things with each other before and also why did I just cling on to him after?
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's hard to be abused by someone you love but you need to recognise that he did something wrong.

Letting this go, will lead to more stuff happening. You need to act now.

And please take care of yourself. Some people are just horrible in this world.
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Yes I think he did pressure you into doing something that you said several times that u didn’t want to do
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Its not rape idiot. Learn what rape means
it is rape. but you clearly need to look up its definition, hun.
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He didnt put his willy inside her willy. He only asked for blowjob. That isnt rape u noob virgin.

Also @OP please ask him for consent next time
silly kid. i never report people, so i hope you feel honoured.
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silly kid. i never report people, so i hope you feel honoured.
Why are you being so salty for
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I was hanging out with him yesterday and we both just had fun being together. At around 6pm he told me he wanted to go to the park. I kept saying no because it was cold dark and that park is just scary especially at night. He managed to persuade me.

While walking through the park I had a gut feeling he wanted to do something sexual so before we even got to the bench by the little pond area I told him I didn’t want to do anything and that I’d much rather just cuddle him.

He laughed at me and said ok in a mocking tone so I told him AGAIN I didn’t want to do anything and that we should just turn back around so I can go home. I put my foot down and kept repeating myself so he said fine we’ll just cuddle and make out under the stars which I was fine with..

That wasnt the case when we got there. While kissing he kept grinding into me until he got a hard on. Then he started to ask me to give him a blowjob. I refused many times. He finally said fine then laid me down on the bench and went on top of me. He said “fine if you won’t do anything for me let me do what I want to you” and again...I said no I didn’t want to. It was just so cold and all I wanted was to hug and talk to him but he started to unbutton my jeans and Yh..

“you said you didn’t want to do anything and yet you’re so wet for me” I remember him saying..

After it happened I got up and couldn’t even look him in the eyes BUT I did just move closer to him and started clinging on to him for I don’t know what reason..? Warmth? I really don’t know..I thought it was done and I asked if we could go back but he said no. He wanted something in return.
He just kept asking for a blowjob and I gave in after saying no.

I just felt sooo down after it happened and I don’t know why but the thing is we have done sexual things with each other before and also why did I just cling on to him after?
You said no multiple times yet he still put his **** in you; this is pretty clean cut case of rape. Don’t shower just go straight to the police and please dump him ASAP
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(Original post by CyproFenol)
Incoming snowflakes saying "Ohhh dump him!! Dump Dump Dump get a new bf dump him too!!! "
Snowflakes? Looks like we found the trash guy in the story. He’s here’s

No consent/forced “consent”/manipulated consent—> rape

Yes fcking dump his worthless ass . Any guy who can’t respect your decisions won’t do sh*t for you in the long run. Vice versa for girls.
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I don’t want any arguments please I’m just so confused because I don’t know what to do..

My brains just going into overdrive and overthinking because I’m realising that this isn’t the first time he ignored me when I’ve said no... I force myself to get over it because I know he loves me and means no harm...and yesterday I was practically clinging on to him after it happened and I don’t know why..

I also want to make it clear his penis did not go inside me..I’m still a virgin. I didn’t want to go into details but his fingers were down there and just things like that
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I don’t want any arguments please I’m just so confused because I don’t know what to do..

My brains just going into overdrive and overthinking because I’m realising that this isn’t the first time he ignored me when I’ve said no... I force myself to get over it because I know he loves me and means no harm...and yesterday I was practically clinging on to him after it happened and I don’t know why..

I also want to make it clear his penis did not go inside me..I’m still a virgin. I didn’t want to go into details but his fingers were down there and just things like that
Okk so basically it isnt rape but you should have a serious talk with him. Otherwise dump.
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he sexually assaulted you. You should tell someone
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I don’t want any arguments please I’m just so confused because I don’t know what to do..

My brains just going into overdrive and overthinking because I’m realising that this isn’t the first time he ignored me when I’ve said no... I force myself to get over it because I know he loves me and means no harm...and yesterday I was practically clinging on to him after it happened and I don’t know why..

I also want to make it clear his penis did not go inside me..I’m still a virgin. I didn’t want to go into details but his fingers were down there and just things like that
Fingers in and forced blowjob is still sexual assault

He doesn’t love you if he sexually assaults you, I’m sorry but it’s the truth and it won’t get better
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I don’t want any arguments please I’m just so confused because I don’t know what to do..

My brains just going into overdrive and overthinking because I’m realising that this isn’t the first time he ignored me when I’ve said no... I force myself to get over it because I know he loves me and means no harm...and yesterday I was practically clinging on to him after it happened and I don’t know why..

I also want to make it clear his penis did not go inside me..I’m still a virgin. I didn’t want to go into details but his fingers were down there and just things like that
(Original post by AngryRedhead)
Fingers in and forced blowjob is still sexual assault

He doesn’t love you if he sexually assaults you, I’m sorry but it’s the truth and it won’t get better
Forced blowjob is rape. Putting one's penis inside another person against their will is rape, no matter which orifice. Absolutely get rid of him - if he loved you he would respect your wishes - that is the absolute minimum.
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