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I just can’t meet anyone I connect with and I feel like my time is running out as I am 21 and have no experience and I am dangerously close to a porn addiction.

For example at my part time job many of the girls I know have boyfriends. On my course/sport club I just don’t click with anyone.

Idk if you are meant to meet someone clubbing. Is that how most people meet?
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I know 21 is young but I’m at the age where I’m pretty sure girls expect me to have experience and be perfect when in reality I’ve never done anything with a girl besides be friends
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give it a few years at least
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I’m a 20 year old girl and I completely agree it’s so hard to meet people! Most of my friends met their boyfriends through university etc. maybe try dating apps as u can find all sorts of people on there.? & maybe seek help or try to manage that porn addiction lol. And honesty I’m not just saying this but it’s pretty much down to each girl and I know for a fact most girls don’t actually care about experience etc necessarily, everyone has their own types of course but alot of my friends boyfriends were virgins when they first met! So give yourself a break.
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Clubbing is a terrible way to meet someone; most there are just looking to get laid

Most people meet their SO’s at university clubs or societies; some in outside societies or in religious meetings such as church etc

I personally met my gf online
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m a 20 year old girl and I completely agree it’s so hard to meet people! Most of my friends met their boyfriends through university etc. maybe try dating apps as u can find all sorts of people on there.? & maybe seek help or try to manage that porn addiction lol. And honesty I’m not just saying this but it’s pretty much down to each girl and I know for a fact most girls don’t actually care about experience etc necessarily, everyone has their own types of course but alot of my friends boyfriends were virgins when they first met! So give yourself a break.
Yeah ah I just don’t get it tbh. Thing is I’ve “crushed” on about 10 girls in my life so far and i never had that connection with any of them. Even at parties girls never really throw themselves at me.

I want to meet someone who I find attractive, who’s personality is a good fit with mine and someone who you know would also put in the effort when it comes to flirting. Just to make my life as a guy who’s interested easier.

I don’t even care about losing my V, I’d rather just meet someone I can go out with go travelling with have and have a meaningful relationship with
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mostly at school or at university, so if youre above that age the chances of meeting someone are slimmer.
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(Original post by AngryRedhead)
Clubbing is a terrible way to meet someone; most there are just looking to get laid

Most people meet their SO’s at university clubs or societies; some in outside societies or in religious meetings such as church etc

I personally met my gf online
I’m part of a sports club, my course club and I recently joined a more creative society.

I feel at a bit of a cross roads in some ways though. For example...

I have a few individual friends but I have no friendship group heck I don’t know who I’m living with next year or what I am going to do.

I feel like I can’t connect with anyone in my sports team.

When it comes to back home I also have no friendship groups. I just have a few friends. And the thing is my friends back home are SO much more different than people in uni. For example music taste, and the fact that 90% of the lads I spoke to in sixth form don’t drink. And aren’t into pubs,concerts, and even have a way different music taste than the people I’ve met in uni.

So I feel like I’m at a crossroads as I don’t fit in with people back home and I also find it harder to fit in with people at university. As you can tell by the fact that I have no friend group and I’ll say I probably only have 2 good friends who would actually message me saying how are you out of the blue.
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Work mainly.
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