Does this girl like me? Watch

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Report Thread starter 6 days ago
So I’ve recently moved to uni and been here for 3 months and I’m not sure if my flatmate likes me or not. Like after a few weeks after we met, she will text me almost on a daily basis, either just talking or asking me to hang out with her. This kinda slowed down after a couple weeks again. She met this boy at this concert back in early October and she’d always talk about him when we talk and she always mentions how much she likes him. We still hang out quite often but am definitely seeing less of her. She’s also very comfortable around me, like she’s even cried in front of me before and she has shared a lot of personal information with me. She also called me when she was drunk at 2 am to come and find her and walk her home. But then again, we live in the same building so who else would she call. She’s sometimes touch me when we talk. For example, she’s grabbed my bicep, linked arms with me and asked to lean on me on the bus. Maybe I’m overthinking it and I’m just her “girlfriend” and that’s why she’s comfortable around me 😂
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Report 6 days ago
From my perspective its hard to say. Everything you first said sounded pretty reasonable, but the way you described her touching your bicep and linked arms suggests something more. However, I feel this could also easily just be her natural personality and you are looking for signs that aren't there. I would say if she is not dating anyone and you want to date her, then ask her out. Otherwise set boundaries you are comfortable with and move on.

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