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Intimacy with my boyfriend not as good as with girls?

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Original post by ANM775
I'm sorry, but you are not straight. Bi most likely

You had sex with not 1 but 2 girls.


Sorry to use this example as it's rather crude, but imagine a man had sex with two under 10's and then claimed he was not a paedophile. Would you believe him? Would anyone believe him?


I think thats a different situation..

I’ve had sex with 2 but it wasn’t completely random, we all were friends and I just happened to experiment with both of them (at different times) with no feelings attached
You are straight... who doesn’t get turned on by lesbian porn
Original post by ANM775
I'm sorry, but you are not straight. Bi most likely

You had sex with not 1 but 2 girls.


Sorry to use this example as it's rather crude, but imagine a man had sex with two under 10's and then claimed he was not a paedophile. Would you believe him? Would anyone believe him?

Bi-curious at the very least
Original post by Anonymous
When he asks, I always say yeah he’s good, because I dont want to ruin the mood anymore than it already is!

I feel like telling him will just make him uncomfortable and make the situation awkward, imagine it makes him reluctant to be intimate with me

It might, possibly, make the situation temporarily awkward. He might well be somewhat uncomfortable for a little while. If it does make him reluctant to be intimate with you, then I think very poorly of him. What could be more exciting than learning and figuring out together how to create the most blissful experience possible for you? If he wouldn't want to do that why is he even getting into bed at all?

If you guys get through this and you help him learn how to please you properly, the joy and the pleasure are going to last a lot longer than the awkwardness.
Original post by Anonymous
Not really...


I only get orgasm when I’m having sex with girls. Never men. But I’m straight. I think you need to accept that the vagina is just better for you
Original post by Anonymous
You are straight... who doesn’t get turned on by lesbian porn


Thats what I thought
Original post by Rock Fan
Bi-curious at the very least


Im gonna google that cus I have no idea what it means aha
Original post by Anonymous
Im gonna google that cus I have no idea what it means aha

More or less straight, but curious as to what it would be like with someone of your own sex. Or a bicurious person can be bisexual but not really understand/acknowledge that yet.
Original post by anosmianAcrimony
It might, possibly, make the situation temporarily awkward. He might well be somewhat uncomfortable for a little while. If it does make him reluctant to be intimate with you, then I think very poorly of him. What could be more exciting than learning and figuring out together how to create the most blissful experience possible for you? If he wouldn't want to do that why is he even getting into bed at all?

If you guys get through this and you help him learn how to please you properly, the joy and the pleasure are going to last a lot longer than the awkwardness.


True..
Original post by Anonymous
I only get orgasm when I’m having sex with girls. Never men. But I’m straight. I think you need to accept that the vagina is just better for you


Damn...I feel the same
Original post by anosmianAcrimony
More or less straight, but curious as to what it would be like with someone of your own sex. Or a bicurious person can be bisexual but not really understand/acknowledge that yet.


Oh thanks

But isn’t everyone a little bicurious then?
Original post by Anonymous
Oh thanks

But isn’t everyone a little bicurious then?

I think a lot of people are. But there are also people who are, for whatever reason, disgusted by the idea of having sex with someone of their own gender.
Original post by Anonymous
When he asks, I always say yeah he’s good, because I dont want to ruin the mood anymore than it already is!

I feel like telling him will just make him uncomfortable and make the situation awkward, imagine it makes him reluctant to be intimate with me

Why are you asking for advice if you’re not actually prepared to change and let him know that he needs to improve? Any good relationship requires honest communication.
Sounds like you're bisexual but if you're not romantically into them you could be bisexual but hetroromantic :smile:
Original post by BurstingBubbles
Sounds like you're bisexual but if you're not romantically into them you could be bisexual but hetroromantic :smile:


I dont want to be bisexual! I don’t want to deal with the backlash of that
Original post by Plantagenet Crown
Why are you asking for advice if you’re not actually prepared to change and let him know that he needs to improve? Any good relationship requires honest communication.


We haven’t been together long so I feel bad and I can’t guess how he would react either
Original post by Anonymous
I dont want to be bisexual! I don’t want to deal with the backlash of that


You are what you are and not wanting to won't change it. I'm bi and I'm glad I am tbh :tongue:

In this day and age there shouldn't be a backlash. Anyone who isn't cool with it should be told bye :tongue:
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Original post by Anonymous
I dont want to be bisexual! I don’t want to deal with the backlash of that

What backlash are you expecting?

I'm bi and have been out for 13 years. No one really gives a damn (well, except lesbian women who dislike dating bi women - but you wouldn't have that issue!).
Well, girls are more aware of what girls themselves want of course! They know how to flick a bean better instead of just rubbing nonsense in the wrong areas. They know that in and out fast fingering doesn’t do much unless you arch your fingers etc.
Original post by Anonymous
We haven’t been together long so I feel bad and I can’t guess how he would react either


All the more reason to sort out this problem now rather than letting the relationship get more long-term and serious and finding yourself stuck in an unsatisfactory sex life. Seriously, don’t know what the point of this thread is when it’s clear you don’t want to do anything to resolve the issue..

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