Hi there,
I am looking for some impartial advice on what to do in the predicament I find myself in. So I moved in at the beginning of this academic year with a friend - let's call them Sam, and a stranger, let's call them Taylor. So Sam and I were searching for houses together and realised that it is pretty difficult to find a two-person flat for our budget so we decided to look at the possibility of renting two rooms in a house with other people.
We found a great place in a location that worked for both of us - it was near to my uni (from which Sam just graduated) and near to Sam's proposed place of work.
The only downside of the property was that it was pushing the top end of our budget and Sam was concerned that they wouldn't be able to cover the cost of rent and bills, considering they would be liable to pay council tax now that they graduated.
Of the three rooms on offer, the downstairs living room turned bedroom is the biggest - not by a huge amount, but it can fit a desk and some breathing room compared with the smaller of the upstairs rooms, which is still a double but cannot fit a desk. The larger of the upstairs room is in between the size of the two other rooms, but again there is not a huge difference.
When Sam and I found the two rooms, Taylor had already signed with the housing agency and agreed to let the larger of the upstairs rooms. That left Sam and me to choose between the downstairs room and the smaller upstairs room. Before viewing the property, Sam had stated that I should have a larger room wherever we moved in because I would need the extra space to study.
Therefore, when we found the rooms, we agreed that I would have the downstairs room. All three rooms in the property are priced at the same rent. We agreed to move into the property and signed the contract on this basis.
Because Sam was worried about money, and I felt a little guilty about having the bigger room, I suggested that I could contribute toward Sam's council tax bill so that they could comfortably afford to move in and we could end the stressful house search. Sam agreed and I have been paying half of Sam's council tax bill (£40 per month) since we moved in during October.
However, now Sam has decided to enrol on a postgraduate degree starting in February, so they won't have to pay council tax anymore. Sam contacted me yesterday to let me know that this was confirmed, but that "in order not to confuse things" I should probably continue to send Sam £40 a month on the day we pay rent - to make it clear that this is a remuneration due to discrepancy in room size.
I have to admit I was a little shocked - in my mind, I had been paying Sam the money in order to make their rent affordable. Plus, Taylor also has a larger room than Sam, but pays the same amount - this is what we agreed to upon moving in.
Sam stated that it is only fair that I continue to pay them £40 a month for the following reasons:
- I would not be paying more than the original amount I was paying from the start
- "Why would I agree to pay the same price rent for rooms of completely different size?"
- I agreed to pay the amount so I should continue to do so, as a rent reduction instead of a council tax contribution
- £10 a week is a good difference in rent cost between two rooms of different sizes
The way I see it is:
- I offered to contribute to council tax because I wanted Sam to be able to afford to live in the property
- Now that Sam is not being billed for council tax, their rent is a lot lower than before
- We never agreed to split the cost of the house's rent based on room size, they agreed that all three of us would pay the same
- Taylor also does not pay more than Sam despite having a bigger room
- I am also in a difficult financial situation, so I think Sam and I each paying £40 less than before is perfectly fair and makes life easier for both of us
- The downstairs room, although bigger, is louder, faces onto the street, is colder, and I hear every knock on the door, often being the only one to answer the door, and would be the first to be burgled (this almost happened already and was very stressful).
Anyway, the argument culminated in Sam saying that I was mean and selfish, and both of us offering to move out and end the friendship. For background: our friendship has become strained for a number of reasons throughout the last few months, so I kind of anticipated a big fight happening.
I would really appreciate advice on:
1) What do you think the fairest arrangement should be?
2) Should I pay Sam the £40 a month?
3) Should we retrospectively re-cost the rooms based on size? (This would mean I would move out due to the cost becoming too high)
4) Is Sam justified? Am I?
Thanks!