Am I being unreasonable?? Watch
My friends have planned to go xmas shopping on my birthday (we are yr10). There is only three of us and I had felt we were on the ‘same page’ and we were planning to go xmas shopping but instead they had planned with someone else ( in a club they so) and one messaged me about it. I am not secretive about my birthday we have been talking about my and my other friends birthday (both quite close) for a while. I have plans with my family and my other friends are doing stuff with their families on their birthday. They could have rescheduled but although I said it was my birthday ( in a nice way and I said I appreciated the thought to include me) but they just said happy birthday for my birthday coming up. They are quite boastful and self centred often and I just bottle up my annoyance about it and I don’t express how I feel. I always put them first and always include BOTH of them. Recently, one had an issue in a lesson with the person she was sat with and although I was content where I was she requested a seating swap. Although I was happy where I was I put up with it and I am upset about that too tbh . Anyway I don’t know what to do, I think I should shut up and not make any bother like I usually do, what do you guys think??
Arrange shopping another day as well
Regards the other issues. You should talk to them and explain how you feel. Don’t let it fester