Ok. heres the situation.
Today (and I really don't think my partner realises) is our anniversary. 2 and a half years.
In secret, I had planned a picnic to our local park. I've spent a fair bit of money on food, wine etc.
Now, about a month ago we discover that partner's brother is home from his high-flying American life, and the family want to get together for golf/BBQ for today.
Trying not to raise too much panic in myself, I build around the conversation and ask partner, "So what time do you think you'll be home?"
"Oh, about half 7. Golf in the morning, a lunchtime BBQ and a chill out afternoon."
Relief washes over me; I can still put my plans into place. So I do.
Now we go over for a chat with his family (as we often do) and the subject comes up again - We're now about a week away.) Once again, plans are confirmed the way I understand them. The course is booked for 9:30 for 9 holes; Home by 12:30-ish, BBQ about 1 and home (here) for about 7:30.
Now, partner calls me two days before to say that BBQ has changed to mid-afternoon to allow the other brother's girlfriend to attend, so he'll be home about 8:30. Mild panic, but it's still doable. By this point, almost everything is brought.
I came home from work, with the rest of the food today, and rang him as a friendly 'chat'. Turns out he won't be home till about 9:30 - After Top Gear. Understandably (I hope), I'm pretty cross at this point. There's no way now my plans can be put in place.
Now, he's just text me to say that he's staying at his parents tonight because he doesn't want to leave his family. I am fuming. Not only are all my plans ruined (oh good, now I'm crying), but I can't even spend part of this day with my partner because he left at 8am before I was up (without even waking me). And, he seems to be TOTALLY oblivious.
Do I have a right to be this ****ing cross with him?! GRAH.