I've been away from my girlfriend for the past 4 months (we are studying in different countries) and it's been alright, most of the time. I miss her like crazy and really resent the distance between us. I don't normally get jealous about stupid things, but since I've been away it seems that pretty much every other day she is asked out by a new guy, invited to dinner, given a new phone number and has even received a marriage proposal (I kid you not!).
To put it into context, she works in a bar which attracts a lot of hyper-rich, single guys and married businessmen who are looking for a 'bit on the side'. My girl has a really beautiful smile, but her boss makes her use this to control clients and make them spend loads of money... and as a result they all think she wants to sleep with them, or at least that they can buy her affection. She tells me that it's 'just work', that she does not flirt with the clients and that she makes it clear that she's got a boyfriend that she's deeply in love with. And for the most part, I believe her.
The thing is though, if she was really acting the way she tells me, why does she receive so many offers and have so many guys chasing after her all the time? There are at least 10 different men who come to the bar specifically to see her, compliment her, chat to her blah blah blah... surely if she made everything so clear to them, they wouldn't keep pursuing her? I'm sure she would never do anything to hurt me and I know she is not the kind of girl who would be attracted by guys like that... but you know what it's like, when there's distance between you, things like this seem like a big problem and I often find myself feeling quite angry inside when she tells me. Am I wrong to feel like this?