How easy is it to blag your way through sexual activities? lol. Please keep anon as this is really embarrassing.
So I'm 18, and the most I've done is kiss guys. I haven't done ANYTHING "down there" etc. Obviously (hopefully!), the time will come when it will happen, and I'm just wondering how easy is it to act like you know what you're doing?
I'm not really ashamed of being a virgin, I haven't met the right guy etc blah blah, but I think not having done ANYTHING sexual is a bit lame at this age...so I'd like to come across as though I sort of know what I'm doing. I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about other stuff...
Haha I can't believe I'm even asking this, but I was thinking about it because my friend (who's in the same situation) were discussing it yesterday.
I'm going to uni in september, and I don't want to be afraid of getting close to guys because I'm worried I'll look like an idiot.
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- Thread Starter
- 14-07-2008 13:31
- 14-07-2008 13:33
Have you had sex education yet? You know what fits where, and what will hurt if you try to put it in there?
If the answers to the above are 'yes', you'll be fine.
- 14-07-2008 13:34
thing is people like different things anyway.... so noone need know if u dont want em to
god i wish i was still in your position lol
- 14-07-2008 13:41
In a word yes. Maybe watch some porn, you'll get the idea soon enough.
- 14-07-2008 15:19
lol you dont 'blag' it
just tell the person your a virgin and they should take it slow etc....
lol blagging sex
- 14-07-2008 15:21
Treat it like a jigsaw.
- 14-07-2008 15:31
Well, the secret is, everyone is different. I'm sure you know the general ideas of what to do, but the secret to really making it good? Communication. And anyone can do that. Just ask what they want, and you can't go wrong. (This is where most people do go wrong of course, even the most 'experienced', who think they know it all )