Friend called me a tramp Watch
Am I overreacting?
I know its uncool considering ive let him to my house loads while hes just let me once even then he had to ask his mum. Im not really allowed my friends round but I took the blame when my parents asked if he came i said yes.
My friend called me a tramp for just having bits on my bedroom floor. Today me and my friend just went out to catch up so we got some food but he didnt want his car to get messed up. I just thought fine we can go back to mine so we did but downstairs was busy so we went to eat in my bedroom. I brought my food upstairs to my room and he locked his car the came up with me. We sat down sorted out whos food is whos but then he looked at the floor and started saying that im a tramp because I have bits on the floor so it really pissed me off because i let him into my house he should appreciate it and we just havent had time to hover up. We were planning on coming here we were going to eat the food outside but it s raining. To be exact he said "You are a tramp what are all these bits on your floor" I said " we didnt know we were coming we need to clean up" but he kept saying it he said "come on you tramp get up and hoover the bits. This just really annoyed me i know mates call each other names but thats just for a joke and i could tell he was serious. I just dont know what to do because its kind of made me self consicous. We were planning to clean up ffs. I dont know if I should just end our friendship because surely people dont call their mates a tramp.
Am I overreacting?
Ive messaged him saying ill report him to his his company where he works because i have messages which could get him sacked so ive told him ill e mail them to his company and hes begging not to really appoligising should i do it or is that a bit far.
Next time if i continue the friendship ill be using that next because i he just does not appriciate that i invited him at all not only that when our other friends were beefing him i stuck up for him but he calls me a tramp.