guys would you date a trans girl?

Physically, no, there is little difference, but they are still women.


Another good point! Also lots of people would really like to get bottom surgery, but the results aren't satisfactory, the recovery time is too long/painful, the high risk of complications. There are plenty of reasons someone might not get surgery!

Sorry am just so used to lesbians being attacked in discussions like this if they dont want to date a pre bottom surgery trans person. Interestingly enough straight men are not harassed in the same way neither are gay men who dont want to date pre-op ftm people.
Trans people are valid and can live their lives as they please, they cannot help who they are the same way i cannot help being absolutely repulsed by male genitals and am fed up of this attacking of the L section of the acronym.

Wow, what a great foundation for a healthy relationship >.>

actually, we do get called transphobic for not wanting to date transboys, too. it's ****ing ridiculous. how am i supposed to be attracted to someone with a female body?

actually, we do get called transphobic for not wanting to date transboys, too. it's ****ing ridiculous. how am i supposed to be attracted to someone with a female body?

Sorry am just so used to lesbians being attacked in discussions like this if they dont want to date a pre bottom surgery trans person. Interestingly enough straight men are not harassed in the same way neither are gay men who dont want to date pre-op ftm people.
Trans people are valid and can live their lives as they please, they cannot help who they are the same way i cannot help being absolutely repulsed by male genitals and am fed up of this attacking of the L section of the acronym.

actually, we do get called transphobic for not wanting to date transboys, too. it's ****ing ridiculous. how am i supposed to be attracted to someone with a female body?

What would you do if you were happily dating a female and then a couple of months down the line found out this person still had a penis [but identified as male]

First the bionic penis question yesterday and now this, what is your obsession with my dating preferences
If they identified as a male i wouldnt be dating them in the first place

Not in the same way as lesbians do, society is fixated with trans women and women as a whole. I am sure some people would be keen to label me as a TERF just for not wanting to sleep with a pre-op trans women despite me regularly defending trans people and having a live and let live philosophy.
Exactly, it's ridiculous, the whole point of the LGBT community is the fact you cant help who you are or who you love.

the bolded bit i edited about 20 seconds after I posted it, as i typo'd. you must of missed it.

I'm not having a go or anything but does The C0ck matter that much to you that you wouldn't be attracted to someone who appeared male in every other department? I mean, I would be attracted to someone who didn't have a bona fide vajeen, so it makes me wonder.

Well, yeah, but I think a big part of the issue is trying to fit everything into categories and labels. F*ck that. Gender's a construct, so is sexuality. You are who you are, call it whatever you want.

Not while there’s oxygen in my lungs

Respectfully this is just blatantly untrue, if there wasnt a huge difference between male and female bodies why would trans people put themselves through different surgeries and hormone therapy if it was only going to make a tiny difference.

actually, we do get called transphobic for not wanting to date transboys, too. it's ****ing ridiculous. how am i supposed to be attracted to someone with a female body?

believe me, it happens. like some of them even use the term 'cis guy' as an insult. and say stuff like "oh cis gay guys are even more transphobic than straight guys because they refuse to have sex with us." lmao, i wonder why.......

ugh, our community is defo heading in the wrong direction.

believe me, it happens. like some of them even use the term 'cis guy' as an insult. and say stuff like "oh cis gay guys are even more transphobic than straight guys because they refuse to have sex with us." lmao, i wonder why.......