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so been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and we've had sex a few times we are each others first, the thing is she makes no noise at all when I have sex and tells me to be quiet when I am climaxing, she says the sex is good but I feel she is only saying that to make me feel better, I find this a turn off as I am sure every other girl who has sex moans and makes lots of noise during sex, should I just finish the relationship?
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you watch too much porn. not everyone makes tons of noise during sex.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
so been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and we've had sex a few times we are each others first, the thing is she makes no noise at all when I have sex and tells me to be quiet when I am climaxing, she says the sex is good but I feel she is only saying that to make me feel better, I find this a turn off as I am sure every other girl who has sex moans and makes lots of noise during sex, should I just finish the relationship?
Pretty sure not every girl moans during sex, some go over the top with it
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so been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and we've had sex a few times we are each others first, the thing is she makes no noise at all when I have sex and tells me to be quiet when I am climaxing, she says the sex is good but I feel she is only saying that to make me feel better, I find this a turn off as I am sure every other girl who has sex moans and makes lots of noise during sex, should I just finish the relationship?

How big's your .........
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Pretty sure not every girl moans during sex, some go over the top with it
but moaning sounds so good but she wont do, and she only wants to do one sex position, she refuses to do doggy and go on top
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My ideal woman.
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How big's your .........
5" before erect
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Having sex with someone after having known her only for 3 months. Yeesh, where is your life going????
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but moaning sounds so good but she wont do, and she only wants to do one sex position, she refuses to do doggy and go on top
You have clearly been watching too much porn
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Personally, I wouldn’t want to have sex with someone who just lies there and gives no feedback, doesn’t trust me enough to try new things... sounds boring.

Do you even enjoy it?
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but moaning sounds so good but she wont do, and she only wants to do one sex position, she refuses to do doggy and go on top
The lack of moaning is besides the point. The missionary only when you want more variety is. The 2 of you are sexually incompatible. Could you become a lot more compatible? Possibly.

If you could build up trust, she might become open to trying new positions. Or she might not.
Does she allow you to do what you have to do to give her orgasms? If not, then she might be one of those people that are so uptight about sex that there's minimal chance of you becoming compatible. If she does, she should come to associate sex with you with extreme pleasure and satisfaction and in time; trust.

If you remain sexually incompatible, then yes, you should leave her.
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You need to respect that this girl has never had sex with anyone else before; its uncomfortable, awkward and she may even find it a little embarrassing - especially the likes of doggy. If you've only had sex a handful of times, it may still be slightly uncomfortable for her or sometimes even painful; it can take a few times to enjoy it. If you're in a relationship, you should talk to her about it but dont make her feel bad for it. It may not be nice to hear, but it might also be that she just doesn't want to have sex right now.
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You need to respect that this girl has never had sex with anyone else before; its uncomfortable, awkward and she may even find it a little embarrassing - especially the likes of doggy. If you've only had sex a handful of times, it may still be slightly uncomfortable for her or sometimes even painful; it can take a few times to enjoy it. If you're in a relationship, you should talk to her about it but dont make her feel bad for it. It may not be nice to hear, but it might also be that she just doesn't want to have sex right now.
Exactly!! Best comment I’ve seen on here Perhaps she would prefer to take things slow and doesn’t feel comfortable varying the positions yet, but if it truly bothers you then sit down and talk to her, but try not to place all the blame on her when everyone has to go at their own pace
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Well u have both only just lost ur virginity and only done it a few times. Maybe she’s not ready to try new things with u yet cuz she still isn’t comfortable. Just give her time, don’t push stuff on her or get angry cuz she can’t help how she feels. The moaning thing could be along the same lines of she isn’t comfortable with u/ her sexual side just yet or sex just doesn’t feel that good yet.
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You are **** in bed; anybody with half a decent mind and body in bed should be able to at least make their partner gasp involuntarily
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so been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and we've had sex a few times we are each others first, the thing is she makes no noise at all when I have sex and tells me to be quiet when I am climaxing, she says the sex is good but I feel she is only saying that to make me feel better, I find this a turn off as I am sure every other girl who has sex moans and makes lots of noise during sex, should I just finish the relationship?
well it could be that you are rubbish in bed or she finds you unattractive and uses her imagination to think of someone else during sex to stimulate herself (your voice being a distraction)

alternatively it could be that she is worried about someone over-hearing

but sure makes sense to break up with a girl because the sex is quiet, and next time a girl says "all guys are the same" your response will be "no baby I am different". You are doing the male species a good cause 👍🏻

You could just ask her what the deal is rather than asking strangers online to hypothesise
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You have been watching to much TV.
It's a complete myth that women make copious amounts of noise whilst making love.
To think about finishing the relationship over this, in my view lacks maturity.
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Have you checked her pulse? Necrophilia is illegal.
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we’ve had sex a lot I’ve never moan during it. I felt like something was wrong with me but I found out not all girls can moan during sex. My boyfriend asked me why I never moan when we **** I just said Idk🤷🏼*♀️ So since then I’ve been having to fake it to make him know I’m enjoying it. But just because she isn’t moaning doesn’t mean she’s not enjoying it so you shouldn’t end the relationship for that little reason your relationship is more than just sex.
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Don't watch too much porn.
If you are ready to end your relationship just because of this reason, you don't want to be in a couple, you just want sex. Don't lie to her and to yourself. Let her go and find a girl who only needs sex without obligation. There will definitely be one.
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