Friend getting cocky in my own house

Me and my friend went out to get lunch and just hang out. Anyway we went to eat in my bedroom, then he kept telling me what to do in my own house saying like "hoover up you tramp" refering to me, "he was saying go and get a drinks" which is not that bad. He said other stuff like "you lazy i need to get a job" because he asked where my famliy were so i said "they are out shopping or something" so he said "they are working unlike me" so he said about the job thing. He said tons of stuff he even tried physically draging me saying "come clean up". He wasted all ny GTA 5 money and got my favourite car destroyyed i tried to tell him but he said "i dont care" and laughed. When were eating the food i went to get my drink and came back to my room but he was lying on my bed so i tried to sit down he was saying "sit on a chair no room on tge bed".

I dont know why hes getting rude and arrogant with me in my own house, im not really allowed friends at my house but i thought he would respect it. If anyone should be getting rude it should be me because its my house but even I wouldnt. The way he was acting was pathetic considering my famliy wanted privacy on a saturday afternoom and i took the blame. The guy wasnt even talking to me ffs he was just busy destorying my cars on gta 5.

His not your friend. Cut him off. His disrespectful, rude, undermining and controlling. Real friends dont do that. It's time you stood up to this low life and show him the door!

I'd have told him to leave pretty early on during his visit.

Do not invite him to you home again. Not until he has learnt some manners. Which will probably be in about 10 years time.

I'd have told him to leave pretty early on during his visit.

Do not invite him to you home again. Not until he has learnt some manners. Which will probably be in about 10 years time.

Good. Just ignore him of he trots to talk to ou. Block his numbers and delete him. He ain't worth your time.

I probably will

I tried to tell him hes being a bit rude and he jus proceeded to lie on my bed and apprently say i was the rude one because hes the visitor.

I'd have said either "My house. My rules." or have told him something extremely blunt and to the point and involving quite a few four letter words.

This was a battle for control. For psychological ascendancy.

Sometimes you have to be assertive.

Treat this as a learning experience. In future always enforce the "My house, my rules." policy when having visitors round.
Whilst when you are the visitor respect the rules of their home - which I get the impression you do very well already anyway.

I know the time when i went to his house i respected his and his famliy rules. He said shoes off which I did , he said be tidy which i did and i did everything. I did want my room clean but if i tried to tell him hell go mad and make it into a massive argument thats another thing he does that seperate from all this.

I know the time when i went to his house i respected his and his famliy rules. He said shoes off which I did , he said be tidy which i did and i did everything. I did want my room clean but if i tried to tell him hell go mad and make it into a massive argument thats another thing he does that seperate from all this.

You have done nothing wrong here. He has. You can't be responsible for other people's behaviour. You can only be responsible for your own.

You can come out of this with your head held high.

It takes bad events like his visit to make you realise how wonderful and how valuable most of your friends and most of your life is.

I know he's got a big ego.. I really don't know why it's such a big deal though?

If this was me, and someone insulted me and then proceeded to tell me what to do in my own home I'd straight ask him if he was hungry then offer him a knuckle sandwich. Since that's that most courteous thing to do when a prick visits your home.

😂😂😂 i wouldve but im a 5ft 4, 8 stone guy and hes like 5ft 10 12 stone

That still does not give him the right to disrespect you. If you are letting him walk all over you with because of fear due to a little height difference, than imagine how bad it will get in the future when others will also try to take advantage of you?