Should i apologise?Watch
Leave him blocked on SM. You've tried talking things over with him once, it hasn't worked. Don't contact him again. Enjoy uni and your new boyfriend!
And choose your friends carefully if they are going to have an ulterior motive for going out and then abandon you.
I broke up with my ex officially about 2 months ago. I now have a new boyfriend who I adore. The relationship with my ex ended mainly because of struggling with the distance being at different unis but it was an argument with catalysed us breaking up. We were arguing a lot in the months building up to us breaking up and the time when we weren't really arguing was the month or so before moving to uni, so it was when we knew we were going to be apart. When we broke up initially after getting over the argument we were able to stay friends, however, when my new boyfriend started to come on the scene my ex got jealous and sent some very disrespectful messages when he was drunk. After this, he was blocked on all social media. a week after i had received these very nasty messages my friends dragged me on a night out knowing full good hed be there and our group joined his group of friends as soon as we arrived (his and my friends used to hang around as a group in school). None of his friends would talk to me probably because feeling like they need to stay loyal to my ex and my friends all buggered off to try and pull lads. I left and felt very **** because I felt like because we were over I had now lost all my friends. I'm not sure whether its the urge to salvage my friendship with everyone which has led me to want to apologise but I feel like I want to reach out to my ex and talk things over. Is this a bad idea especially considering I have a boyfriend (I think I also may be missing him as this is the first time we've been apart as we are in uni together)
My advice is to not apologise. Stay neutral. What would you apologise for? When the pain subsides on his side he will apologise to you and contact you, he really will. Try not to flaunt your new love and just give your ex and his friends some space, usually in these situations friendship will and can be salvaged in a few months.
If you don't miss your ex then don't apologise, sadly it isn't like you are going to have any sort of relationship with him, friends or otherwise. He either hates you, which helps him get over you or has forgotten about it all. Leave him be and focus on your new boyfriend and making new friends, join a club and meet people that way.