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    girls does a "lack of experience" put you off?
    personally, for me it does put me off.
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    (Original post by SilverWings)
    If I were interested in sleeping with anyone other than who I currently do, I'd love someone with little to no experience.

    It's a turn-on for me, at the moment.
    Just to add to this:

    It really should put me off [for various reasons], but it doesn't, which is strange. Maybe I just have too much faith in guys :p:
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    Not me personally, because I have a lack of experience myself. If by some chance I become very experienced in the future, a lack of experience wouldn't put me off because I know how difficult it would be for them, having been there myself.
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    Not really, if I adored him, and he was eager and willing to learn.
    But, to be honest, a guy who knows what he's doing is much sexier.
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    People act like virgins wouldn't have a clue what they are doing.

    'what is dis?' (points to penis)

    'and what is dat hole for? do i put my finger in it???'

    :rolleyes:

    A couple porno vids and some researching online and a guy is pretty much good to go. Who knows, he could be a natural.
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    No, but your ego might be a hurdle.
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    (Original post by Sithius)
    People act like virgins wouldn't have a clue what they are doing.

    'what is dis?' (points to penis)

    'and what is dat hole for? do i put my finger in it???'

    :rolleyes:

    A couple porno vids and some researching online and a guy is pretty much good to go. Who knows, he could be a natural.
    Lol, I agree. I think the main reason an inexperienced person could be bad in bed is due to nerves, which are heightened by the amount of stick people give them. As long as they get over that, they're fine.
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    please keep anon this is embarrassing

    im 19 and i have only had sex with 1 girl and that was ages ago. ive also only had the one proper girlfriend and that was the same girl.

    so if you met someone who you really liked but you found out they were very inexperienced would it put you off? i think that i am a "late bloomer" in terms of getting good with women. i think i know what i need to do in order to be attractive, but i think that my lack of experience might hold me back.
    i get opportunities with girls but i usually turn them away..my standards are probably higher than they currently should be i perhaps need to get over my ego.

    so does inexperience put you off?
    Nope, not at all! Tbh I would think more of you..+ I would think it's sweet.
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    honestly i think that only shallow people will be put off by your inexperience.. its more important to find a woman you love and trust and who feels the same about you, and then past experiences will fade into the background and will not be at all important. have confidence in yourself, and if you get a good feeling about a girl, don't sit by and let her walk away just because she doesn't tick all of your requirements.. live a little you may be surprised.
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    also, personally I would prefer it if a guy didn't have sooo much experience, especially if I really liked him. so I don't think you should worry, you've just got to wait for the right girl!
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    I would, yes. I prefer to be with a man who's had experience. Although, as someone had already pointed out in another of my posts saying the same, my opinion isn't gospel - it's just me and how I feel. I do not speak for any other women out there!
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    I would much rather you were inexperienced than you'd had far too many sexual partners.
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    Nope, not at all. It's personality that matters most really.
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    No, now let me at those virgins...
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    (Original post by Arielle)
    personally, for me it does put me off.
    Its funny, how it puts you of when you of when your only 16.
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    (Original post by jakeee)
    Its funny, how it puts you of when you of when your only 16.
    I was thinking that as well, 16 is the age of consent!
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    It wouldn't be enough to put me off someone I like, but I'd rather they weren't inexperienced.
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    I would prefer, most definitely, someone who is adept; I do not name a number - some can sleep with 234123 women and still remain woefully inept, while others gain knowledge quickly.

    However, I would be rather reserved with someone with no experience; I, frankly, have no desire to teach (outside of a sub/dom fantasy maybe...).
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    (Original post by Erradhadh)
    I would prefer, most definitely, someone who is adept; I do not name a number - some can sleep with 234123 women and still remain woefully inept, while others gain knowledge quickly.

    However, I would be rather reserved with someone with no experience; I, frankly, have no desire to teach (outside of a sub/dom fantasy maybe...).
    Everyone has to start somewhere love, im sure they can teach themselves
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    My ex was VERY inexperienced and at times it did annoy me. Partly because he used to ask loads of questions afterwards (insecure= turn off) and partly because I had to teach him pretty much everything. Sometimes you want him to have his own tricks!

    Major + points though- you get to teach the guy exactly what YOU like and he won't have any little things he think girls really like..when they really don't!

    It is very shallow to break up with someone over it though. (edit- unless it does become an issue between you and causes arguments ect.)
 
 
 
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