Young long term relationships-does he still care?Watch
How wonderful that you have someone new, who sounds much better than the ex. When people split up they always say they want to be friends but that is just to make the situation easier. It’s a cliche , a meaningless phrase.
Whereas with the new boyfriend you have a brand new start. Concentrate on him. If you try to be good friends with the ex it may make your boyfriend uneasy.
That should bring closure to your ex and his family. Whilst also showing your lovely new boyfriend that you're not sneaking off with your ex behind his back.
At the meeting the 3 of you: you, your new boyfriend and the mum can all agree what a stupid idiot your ex was for breaking up with you. Should be quite a fun conversation.