Out of my friendship group (all but one 18+) there's only two of us that drink, and as a result I'm often the one who ends up in awkward situations when under the influence. Over the past year I've changed quite a lot confidence wise, getting a steady boyfriend for a while and having the odd hookup with perhaps less than suitable men in the interim. Whilst I have no regrets it feels like all my friends talk to me about is what I've got up to at parties etc., and they all seem convinced I have a drink problem merely because I'll have a glass (or three) on a night out. We're going out tomorrow for an 18th party and so far I've been warned not to get 'out of control' and another friend told me not to be sick in her sleeping bag, despite the fact I've only thrown up from drink once in my whole life. I'm really getting fed up of what I consider unfounded judgements from my friends, but I'm not sure how to get them to stop going on about things that are none of their business. Help?!
Don't drink when you're around them?
Make friends with people who do drink, and just drink when you're with them?
ignore them and carry on. if you're genuinely not getting too stupid or "out of control" then they're probably just being uptight. if they'r really THAT bothered you could drink a bit less around those particular people to shut them up, but they should just get over it and stop making a drama
get new friends they sound like neeks
Grr they're all so perfect! And the worst thing is hearing them say " i don't need alcohol to have fun" as though i do!!! grrrrrrrrr lol
1) Buy gun.
2) Point gun at said freinds.
3) Inform freinds of the consequences of their not shutting up.
Let's get things straight. The solution here is not to drink less. The solution, if anything, is to drink more. That'll give you the courage to tell them to piss off out of it.
Alternatively, spike their drinks with vodka and let them join in the fun!
Duct tape and cotton wool either for their mouthes or your ears.
Just ignore it - Not worth getting worked up about
Get really drunk then be sick in that sleeping bag, then they'll realise that everything they say, you do. So they won't say it anymore.