british-pakistani girls and dating? Watch
It’s not really a matter of being Pakistani. I’m happy with dating someone non pk it’s more about the religion thing. We would be happy with people of any background/nationality as long as they’re Muslim.
yeah no offence but that really doesnt make me like religion a whole lot. i remember me and this arab girl had a massive crush on each other but because she was a strict muslim, we couldnt date. just things like that which annoy me as well as many others im sure
okay I’m sorry if this is late and I am also HIGHKEY scared to post this bc nobody knows about this except me and the boy even though its anonymous.
I’m British Pakistani. I’m personally quite religious and so is my family. I want to marry a Muslim and my family would not be okay with marrying a non Muslim because it’s forbidden in Islam.
When I was 8 I became best friends with a white religious catholic boy from school but I never told my parents bc I was a kid and thought it was weird. although as I got older i realised it was fine to be friends with boys and my parents didn’t mind, it was kind of too late to tell them about him... difficult to explain.
We just hung out in secret - when I was 15 I realised I was in love with him, he told me he’d liked me for years but never said anything. Our faiths are both important to us so we knew there was no real possibility of a future and we didn’t want to get attached to each other and then have to break up and get hurt. we agreed to stay friends, but about a year later after much restraint, we kissed. We said it wouldnthappen again but it did ... a lot. We agreed then that we would stop at the end of summer and that would be the end and we wouldn’t see each other anymore (he was going to uni). The point is that he knew how important my family and my faith was to me. It made him sad that he was the reason behind my guilt ... he loved me enough to let me go.
I think you need to talk to her and seriously ask where this is going. In my situation I always knew it was going to end at some point so it wasn’t upsetting. Also it depends on her bc she might not feel guilty at all and could be completely willing to go against her family and faith - which is great for you lol.
I've had masses of Pakistani born women after me, just because I went to high school with a set of British Pakistani born women. I've even unknowingly went out with one on a date, she lied to get me to go out with her and I never spoke to her again after I found out, because I went to high school with a bunch of British Pakistani girls, helping them and giving them the support as I'm a Brit born myself.
Not Pakistani however I’m Turkish and my father and his parents are very strict, we are Muslims.
Mum is not strict neither is dad we are moderate.
If I was to date a non Muslim my dad would freak out and may stop me from being his child (no exaggeration) he doesn’t want to look bad in the family and in the village. He wants me just to marry a Turkish man, on the other hand my mum doesn’t mind she’s open to everyone and so am I.
I fear this and pray for everyone's guidance. But whoever the Almighty leads astray no one can guide them back to the path.