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anon as he is a computer geek and may use this :P
Right to make things simple:
-This guy "sam" I have fancied for ages, but I do nothing and go away to uni, he stays in home town
-Sam recently admits he fancies me, goes a bit psycho and says he "loves" me, I obviously know he's just lusting
-I move back from uni, Sam texts me when he's out asking for me to meet up with him. He sends various messages that we should meet up and get it on
-We finally kiss in a club, I ask to go back to his, he doesn't want parents to hear him doing the dirty
-He tells me he wants to pick me up and go for sex as his parents are out, I decline as I'm busy but say that we could sleep at my friends house another time
-Next time I'm out I text him, he seems not bothered and makes no attempt to find me.
-I ask him out for a drink. He doesn't get back to me
I'm not sure what he's playing at. We both aren't looking for a full blown relationship and I'm practically offering no strings sex to him on a plate, which isn't what I usually do, and he knows this.
He says I'm 'perfect' and attractive so why is he being on and then off with me?
Males, can you offer any insight?
Should I hang around for him or move on?
Right to make things simple:
-This guy "sam" I have fancied for ages, but I do nothing and go away to uni, he stays in home town
-Sam recently admits he fancies me, goes a bit psycho and says he "loves" me, I obviously know he's just lusting
-I move back from uni, Sam texts me when he's out asking for me to meet up with him. He sends various messages that we should meet up and get it on
-We finally kiss in a club, I ask to go back to his, he doesn't want parents to hear him doing the dirty
-He tells me he wants to pick me up and go for sex as his parents are out, I decline as I'm busy but say that we could sleep at my friends house another time
-Next time I'm out I text him, he seems not bothered and makes no attempt to find me.
-I ask him out for a drink. He doesn't get back to me
I'm not sure what he's playing at. We both aren't looking for a full blown relationship and I'm practically offering no strings sex to him on a plate, which isn't what I usually do, and he knows this.
He says I'm 'perfect' and attractive so why is he being on and then off with me?
Males, can you offer any insight?
Should I hang around for him or move on?
Seems like a spare of the minute decision he's made, but later he's realised it might not work if you are so far away.
well.. tbh he sounds like a bit of a..
i'm not one to push morals (
) but you really shouldn't offer him 'no strings sex' as if you do that then he's probably not going to have much respect for you really.
I'd move on if I was you.
i'm not one to push morals (
) but you really shouldn't offer him 'no strings sex' as if you do that then he's probably not going to have much respect for you really.I'd move on if I was you.
Mabye since he is a geek(like myself) and doesnt find women attractive as much as mother boards...
well, it isn't an easy question, but he seems like a very enthusiastic and passionate guy, who easily says things like I love you. Not without thinking, but still instinctive and so quickly losing his interest in you. There are guys, who are attracted by all what's new and unreachable and go on, when's not longer like this. Don't take me on my word, I'm no psychologist 
, but I would suggest to talk to him as he's possible confused about his feelings. Either way, much of luck 
, but I would suggest to talk to him as he's possible confused about his feelings. Either way, much of luck 
Rei
My motherboard > girl ANYDAY. 
You mean the motherboard IS your girl?
But at OP, maybe he's a player and just out for flings?
He has a MBILF fetish... work it out;p
nah he is probably like, every other nerd out there, a bit shy!
nah he is probably like, every other nerd out there, a bit shy!
He's clean and off the crack.
or hes havin it off with ya mum
nobody has mentioned the obvious: guys don't give signals! they try, usually ineffectively, to pick up signals that girls give and then base actions upon them...
EDIT: ha just realized this is an old thread... i must be bored
EDIT: ha just realized this is an old thread... i must be bored
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