Keep it! You like it, it's yours. Don't stop enjoying it just because you broke up.
Hmm...I have a necklace from an ex that I wear, but we parted on good terms. If we hadn't...I'd probably keep it until I was over him and could wear it again.
Yea im a buryier
I have some photos my ex gave to me when we broke up 4 years ago.... and I need to decide what to do? I think itd be too weird to post them to him..
Personally I kept mine, but he was never horrible to me, he just didn't want to be in an LDR. There was no way I was going to give my Lord of the Rings Evenstar necklace back- I'd wanted one for so long. I wear it constantly, and he never wanted it back, and my current boyfriend (old one's bestfriend) doesn't mind either.
Though if he was horrible to you and it gives you bad memories- get rid of it- give/throw it away. Sending it back is rather petty.
Give it to a younger cousin, it will be much appreciated.
Send it back. Let him know it means nothing to you, and he therefore means nothing to you.
I'm still got a necklace my ***** of an ex got me - just sitting in the bottom of my drawer - not worn it since we split up - kinda wana get rid of it but half of me says keep it as well!
Mine had been lurking in my drawer for ages but after 2 years (and completely forgetting it was there!) I've decided to sell it at a car boot sale, if it doesn't sell I'm going to throw it out.
A girl I know still wears hers everyday even though they split up last year?!
It's one hell of a necklace.. It's not expensive, it's more of emotional value.. The thing is that, I thought I really liked the guy, and what happened between us isn't something to forget.. I thought he genuinly cared about me (forget loving me, because no guy capable of doing that except the guy I'm with right now..) He gave me that necklace and another.. which I have returned.. But this I can't.. I loved the design and it's incredible how he remembered that I loved it!
Its a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG story him and I.. (I should be writing a book about it!)
I can't give it back and i cant throw it.. Memory i dont knw what to classify it as.. a good a bad one.. i dont knw!
Friends are saying get rid of it.. others are like keep it..
NOTICE THE CONFUSSION! aaaaaaaaaaaa!
keep it, then when u hav ur own teenage daughter and you are going through your old jewelry you can both laugh about it. Thats what i would do, my mum had some things from exs. It also means that if it would go perfectly with an outfit a friend it wearing you can loan it out (i hav a few bits my best friends step mum lent me)
And anyway he doenst deserve you giving it back
if it was a gift, don't return is back.
what is he going to do with the female necklace?!
I kept my necklace but my ex and i didnt break up on bad terms and we still speak to each other. i still wear it every now and again, like i do with my other bracklets from my best friends.
so no need to throw it/break it/ or give it back to him.
but if i hated him, i would probably break it and throw it in the bin lol