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    Please keep anon.
    Just got back from a second date. We had a really good time but it got a bit awkward when the date ended. I wanted to kiss her but we were on the bus and I ran out of confidence. She looked a bit miffed.
    Thing is, we had a bit of an awkward kiss on the first date which didn't end well.
    I don't what to say to her and I feel very self-concious. Has this happened to any of you? How can I build enough confidence to be more touchy and kiss her on the next date? Thanks
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    Just send her a text telling her you really like her, but were nervous. Say you'd really like to kiss her, and ask her on a third date.
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    just take the bull by the horns and kiss her. i guarantee she wants you to do it! lol

    im always scared at the end of a date, but its really nice when a guy initiates the kiss. shes probably a bit shy and unsure.
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    If she was annoyed, it's clear what she wants. Use that to help you; what's causing the lack in confidence?
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    don't wait for the end...try get it out the way (i make it sound like a task sorry) earlier on in the date and then you will hopefully get a right moment and will both relax after that. there wont be that anticipation and anxiety for the end of the date.
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    I agree with shadowrow - don't want until the end of the date. That just puts a lot of pressure on you. Try to do it earlier when the moment seems right. But whatever you do, don't ask her if you can kiss her. Ahh, I remember my first date with my first boyfriend. We were walking through a park at night when he stopped and asked if it was okay if he kissed me. It just made it all so awkward that I said no and walked away. ^^
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    Joke with her about how awkward/shy it/you was/were, talking about it makes it an easier subject and hopefully easier to get a proper kiss next date (or at least it did for me).
 
 
 
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