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If my boyfriend and I used a condom correctly, he didn’t ejaculate what is my likelyness of being pregnant. It was my first time and it’s now the 2nd day after and I have some bleeding so I’m abit nervous and my period is only due at the start of next month. It finished 4 days before we had sex I’m just nervous
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(Original post by Weooo11)
If my boyfriend and I used a condom correctly, he didn’t ejaculate what is my likelyness of being pregnant. It was my first time and it’s now the 2nd day after and I have some bleeding so I’m abit nervous and my period is only due at the start of next month. It finished 4 days before we had sex I’m just nervous
Small amounts of bleeding are common after having sex or fully penetrating the vagina the first time. As long as it's only small amounts, and it stops in the next couple of days, you have nothing to worry about.

Using a condom correctly + not ejaculating, + having sex 4 days after your period finished means the chance of you being pregnant is practically Nil.

FYI You're most fertile at the time of ovulation (when an egg is released from your ovaries), which usually occurs 12 to 14 days before your next period starts. This is the time of the month when you're most likely to get pregnant. It's unlikely that you'll get pregnant just after your period, although if no protection is used, there is a small possibility.
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Thank you so much, I feel a lot less stressed
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Thank you so much, I feel a lot less stressed
Yw, glad it helped.
You might also want to read this thread https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho....php?t=6288992
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Yw, glad it helped.
You might also want to read this thread https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho....php?t=6288992
Hey so it’s now 10 days till when my period should start and I’ve been stressing again and I was wondering if cramps and nausea are just from me being overly anxious about it and it’s making my body act strange
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They probably are.
As one of the previous posters said there is little chance of you being pregnant.
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They probably are.
As one of the previous posters said there is little chance of you being pregnant.
Thank you sorry I’m probably just stressing my self out, I’ll be fine my period will come next week
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Thank you sorry I’m probably just stressing my self out, I’ll be fine my period will come next week
Dont worry, that's why we are here, to hopefully help each other out.
It's a very good site like that.
Some nice people with good advice.
I bet for the first time ever your looking forward to getting your period lol. X
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as the others say bleeding is very normal after your first time & you may be experiencing pms which will make u more on edge, you’ll be fine don’t stress
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Dont worry, that's why we are here, to hopefully help each other out.
It's a very good site like that.
Some nice people with good advice.
I bet for the first time ever your looking forward to getting your period lol. X
It really is and it’s my birthday when it’s due so out of anything it will be my best present 😅 x
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as the others say bleeding is very normal after your first time & you may be experiencing pms which will make u more on edge, you’ll be fine don’t stress
Thank youu 🙂🙂
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It really is and it’s my birthday when it’s due so out of anything it will be my best present 😅 x
Good on you girlie. X
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Hey so it’s now 10 days till when my period should start and I’ve been stressing again and I was wondering if cramps and nausea are just from me being overly anxious about it and it’s making my body act strange
Honestly, hun, you're not the only one in the world that's experienced this haha. Due to the stress you're placing on yourself from worrying, your body will trick yourself into thinking you have these symptoms. It's very unlikely you'll be pregnant if a condom was used and he didn't ejaculate! And of course, if worst comes to worst there are always options you can take! Plus periods can be late from stress, so that's probably why it may be late etc.
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Honestly, hun, you're not the only one in the world that's experienced this haha. Due to the stress you're placing on yourself from worrying, your body will trick yourself into thinking you have these symptoms. It's very unlikely you'll be pregnant if a condom was used and he didn't ejaculate! And of course, if worst comes to worst there are always options you can take! Plus periods can be late from stress, so that's probably why it may be late etc.
Ok thank you for responding, it’s apparently 2 days late now and I’ve been having a lot of discharge I’m so stressed I think I’m just going to try get a test cz I can’t sleep atm it’s so bad I need to calm down
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I’m getting so nervous again I know everyone has said it should be fine but I’m now 3 days late apparently and I’m having bad cramps but no period with watery/whiteish discharge, Ik it could just be stress as it’s been a stressful time but I’m just so nervous like I just keep going over it like it’s fine cz we used a condom and he didn’t ejaculate at all and it was 4 days after my period
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Hey, I think you should get a pregnancy test and check, there is probably no need to be stressed and nervous, so you can check it to be sure
Good luck
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I’m getting so nervous again I know everyone has said it should be fine but I’m now 3 days late apparently and I’m having bad cramps but no period with watery/whiteish discharge, Ik it could just be stress as it’s been a stressful time but I’m just so nervous like I just keep going over it like it’s fine cz we used a condom and he didn’t ejaculate at all and it was 4 days after my period
You stressing over this is most likely what's making your period late.

Are you using contraception yourself, i.e. taking the pill?
If not, I suggest you talk to your GP about starting some form of contraception, since this should hopefully give you added protection and also help you to not get so stressed after having sex. After all, it's meant to be pleasurable, something you look forward to, and have happy memories of.
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If there's no sperm to fertilise an egg then you can't become pregnant. The stressing is what's doing this to you.
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You stressing over this is most likely what's making your period late.

Are you using contraception yourself, i.e. taking the pill?
If not, I suggest you talk to your GP about starting some form of contraception, since this should hopefully give you added protection and also help you to not get so stressed after having sex. After all, it's meant to be pleasurable, something you look forward to, and have happy memories of
WOOOO HOOOO. I think it has come, 11 days late but she is here thank you everyone for being so helpful and putting up with me being so stressy. I am going to look into getting on the pill or something to stop this in the future if we do decide to do it again.
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WOOOO HOOOO. I think it has come, 11 days late but she is here thank you everyone for being so helpful and putting up with me being so stressy. I am going to look into getting on the pill or something to stop this in the future if we do decide to do it again.
Thanks for the update, glad it's worked out the way you wanted.
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